Kandi recently opened up to Essence about her Bedroom Kandi by OhMiBod sex toys line. The top women's magazine asked the Atlanta Housewife what women should do if their partner is not into toys in the bedroom. She had this to say...

Honestly I would tell them maybe they should use the toy for him, or in front of him first. Turn him on by using it in front of him and letting him see it. Maybe he’ll laugh and get into it. I definitely would say if you have a man that is intimidated by toys, do not pull out a big huge vibrator in front of him. He’s automatically going to compare himself to it in size. Get something small. It needs to be something he can feel comfortable with and use and enjoy. No man wants another penis in the bedroom.

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