Light-skinned lady

Unless you’re a fudge or something, no one wants to go to a club where it’s just all guys, as if it was a Wu-Tang concert or some shit. Even if you’re not there to dance (and really, what kind of guy goes to a club to dance?) you’re still going to want to find a girl to take home and boink eat croûtons with at some point.

Hence club promoters will often run a promotion where girls can get in free, even if they’re not quite 21. Sometimes they’ll even let girls drink for free, which is even better, since you don’t have to come out of your own pocket as much trying to get some stank on your hang-low. You can just let that well vodka run its course until you don’t look like quite as much of a loser as you would otherwise.

Only thing is, sometimes you go to these ladies nights events, especially here in the Midwest, and it’s nothing but fucked up-looking women: older broads who haven’t been worth a shit in 10 years; fat girls; hairy women of indeterminate ethnic origin. But it’s not like there’s a whole lot these club promoters can do. Otherwise, I’m sure they would have tried that shit a long time ago.

I bring this up because I’m sure at least some of you have heard of “light skinted girls night” as some club in Detroit. The way it would have worked is not unlike your typical ladies night promotion, except only light-skinted women could get in for free. I’m not sure if this meant only light-skinted black chicks, or white chicks as well. If it was my club, it would obviously be the latter.

It probably would have worked out especially well, since what kind of black chick do you know who would pay money to get into a club she could have gotten into for free, if only she could pass a paper bag test? It would’ve basically been all light-skinted black chicks and white chicks. Only thing is, of course it had to be shut down by the burgeoning community of Internets drive-by activists before it could even happen.

Damn.

A flyer for the event got posted to somebody’s blog and of course it spread like the human papiloma virus through the community of women who have come to the conclusion that the best way they can get a man to like them is by restricting a black man’s freedom of speech. A phone and email harassment campaign ensued, and the shit was cancelled faster than you can say “Don Imus.”

According to this story in the Detroit News, some bloggers were even suggesting a lawsuit against the promoter, though I’m not sure if they would have had a legal leg to stand on. Perhaps TPAR can enlighten us (no pun intended). If this was a white girls only night, obviously that would have been discrimination based on race. But there’s no law saying you can’t discriminate based on shade, no?

  • these posts are racist

    It would violate federal and state law to discriminate against “dark skinned” black women in such a circumstance.

    • http://xxlmag.com Bol

      Um, which law?

    • http://asdf.com asdf

      asdf

  • N.O. 4 life

    ^^^its not discrimination when all women get in for free…so why is it a problem to make a decision on skin shade instead of gender

  • Fire

    That’s fucked up that something like that would happen and it shouldn’t. Whatever shade of girl is all right with me. I don’t see why people gotta get all worked up over a girl’s complexion when the more important issue is making sure she’s not crazy or diseased ridden.

    • http://xxlmag.com Bol

      Disease free night at the club would be hot.

      Girls with AIDS might protest though.

      • Eazy E

        I have aids and even I found that funny.

        • Magic Johnson

          I use to have it, so i definitely think it’s funny.

  • FuckUPayMe618

    Why are 99% of artist and people from the south COONS?

    • T. Oxner

      Coons? who uses the word coon

    • T. Oxner

      Coons? who uses the word coon

  • http://www.xsmegazine.com/beta A-Sun

    it would have went down easier if they would have barred all of the monster broads from attending…lol…

  • DANJA29

    “Perhaps TPAR can enlighten us (no pun intended).”

    LMAOOOOOOOO.

  • BIZZLE

    STANK ON YOUR HANG-LOW HAHAHAHA

  • Stunna

    Why would the shade be a fuckin issue? I mean that’s some stupid-ass ish…

  • Father Figure

    Actually, ladies night in and of itself probably violates most states’ public accomodation laws, such as New Jersey’s “Law Against Discrimination,” which prohibit entites that are open to the public from discriminating based upon sex, or in some cases, gender.

    As for intraracial discrimination, if a statute prohibits discrimination based upon ” race, color, religion, sex and national origin,” such as Title VII of the 1964 Civil rights Act, the term “color” prohibits this form of intraracial discrimination.

    • yow

      Yup, and I’ll add that there’s no such thing as race when talking about human, scientists have abandoned this term a while ago.

  • chello

    that is hilarious.

  • these posts are racist

    Co-Sign Father Figure.

  • grippy

    i don’t know what kinda broads you see in the midwest, but chicago and detroit got winners by the ton

  • Around and Around

    That’s a fucked up promo. I heard a chain of ‘light skinned’ only water fountains opening up around the south….

    How about ‘Double D’s drink for frees night’

  • yaboy

    lmao bol you are a d-bag of epic proportions…

  • Da Ryder

    “I’m not sure if this meant only light-skinted black chicks, or white chicks as well. If it was my club, it would obviously be the latter.”

    Ha ha ha ha ha ha-True dat, LOL!!!!!

    I laughed all the way through!! u da man Bol (no homo)

  • http://xxlmag.com kane corleone

    Somewhere Al B Sure is like “muthafucka”.

  • CHICAGO PaPii

    Seeing as I am Mixed, Bi-Racial and LightSkinned(Yes oh yes it’s True!) I would LOVE to go to a Club with ONLY Lightskinned, Mixed, Spanish and White Girls ! Thats like Heaven On Earth as far as Hot Chicks go because Dark-Skinned Black Girls aren’t really “Pretty” to look at as far as their faces go AND they seem to me to be less Atrractive then LightSkinned chicks. Plus the ONLY thing Dark-Skinned Black girls got to offer is a Big Booty and Thickness, but, half the time thats the ONLY thing on them that is Sexy or alluring to a Man(Negroid). Dark-Skinned be Hating on Lighter-Skinned Black chicks because they know that Negoids wouldn’t look at the darker ones unless the Lighter ones turned them down first, AND they would rather get a Light-Skinned Chick pregnant than a Big Booty Dark-Skinned Chick because most Dark-Skinned chicks is Ugly as Hell. Bol you are right about MidWest chicks being less Atrractive then East Coast,West Coast or Down South chicks cuz I went to Cali and New York and every other chick was at least a 9 or a 10 while here you gotta a Dime Chick when she is young if you aren’t a Dope-Dealing Ballin Negroid.

    • Ms.Ty

      This is all pretty stupid because I see both sides of the coin. Let’s keep it real any way,us light-skinned girls ” been out of style since Buffy the Body”. Part of me can totally agree though if I got a dub for every time I’ve been asked to be a “baby momma” because of the potential of green eyes and light-skin I probably could do that….. just sit home and be a baby momma.

      • Big Dick Cheney

        A. Lightskinned chicks have never been out of style. Never will be.

        B. Light skinned chicks are sometimes thicker than the dark ladies and definitely, on average, have bigger breasts.

        C. Ms. Ty, i think you need to get at me. You sound kinna sexy

    • LOWENDOFDACHI

      With all due respect, please go kill yourself. Immediately. What school did you waste your money attending, b/c this post was as dumb as the next Soulja Boi single. Most of the time you make some fairly sensible arguments, and I’m hoping this is a gross exception. Actually, I’m hoping this is sarcasm. I’m “light skinned” as well, but I love black women enough to avoid generalizing their qualities based on complexion. Baseless generalizations at that.

      I don’t even give a fuck if you feel insulted, b/c this “Dark-Skinned Black Girls aren’t really “Pretty” to look at as far as their faces go AND they seem to me to be less Atrractive then LightSkinned chicks. Plus the ONLY thing Dark-Skinned Black girls got to offer is a Big Booty and Thickness, but, half the time thats the ONLY thing on them that is Sexy or alluring to a Man(Negroid). Dark-Skinned be Hating on Lighter-Skinned Black chicks because they know that Negoids wouldn’t look at the darker ones unless the Lighter ones turned them down first, AND they would rather get a Light-Skinned Chick pregnant than a Big Booty Dark-Skinned Chick because most Dark-Skinned chicks is Ugly as Hell.”

      So most dark skinned females are not only unattractive, but they mostly have big booties and are thick as well, right?

      You’re a fucking genius. The black race needs more progressive thinkers like yourself.

      • CHICAGO PaPii

        You seem like your more Offended with the Opinion that I expressed, how can u get mad over my Opinion of Women that I am Attracted to? I just stated that the ONLY thing on a Dark-Skinned Girl that is even somewhat Attractive is their Ass, everything else to me in my Personal Opinion isn’t as Sexy or as Pretty as the features on a Light-Skinned Girl. Also Most Dark-Skinned girls I see (especially on the Southside of the Chi where I live) aren’t very Pretty in the face as their Light counterparts, but, if thats the type of girl you like dog go for it. Also most girls I come in contact out here on the Southside in “The Hood” look kinda “Rough” like they don’t know how to act or look in a way that is showing of their Feminimity. You know what I mean when you meet a semi-Decent lookin chick and show smoke Weed and got dark ass lips and sound like Darth Vader on Crack, you know the type who rock jeans year round and never rock skirts or dresses or heels? Thats what I mean. If you disagree with my Preference of women’s beauty of over some random Escaped Slave-lookin chick you really could Blow me cuz I gives No Fucks.

        • LOWENDOFDACHI

          My dude, I’m from 43rd, and don’t know where the fuck you’re from, but I see rough looking individuals from both genders. Having a preference is fine, but the way you’re justifying that preference sounds like mounds upon mounds of self hating garbage and ignorance. For example, let’s look at the last sentence of your reply , “If you disagree with my Preference of women’s beauty of over some random Escaped Slave-lookin chick.”

          Like my man’s said below me, our grandparents and those before them dealt with adversity and division based on complexion. I’m surprised that someone such as yourself who claims to have attended an institute of higher learning still promotes this ignorant Willie Lynch bullshit. Wake the fuck up.

          And you can dead all that “blow me” garbage. I don’t know you fam, so let’s conduct ourselves accordingly.

        • CHICAGO PaPii

          Not all “Black People’s” ancestors were Slaves, thats a BIG misconception as far as “Slavery Era America”, you had the Free Creoles of Colour in Louisanna who actuallu OWNED Slaves, and whom bought and sold anybody with %100 Africoid Blood in their veins just like any Angloid during the period. I am not trying to sound like I am a Reverse-Racist, but, I am only stating MY opinion, and yes I am from the Southside Wild 100′s just like you are so lets keep it 100 with Our comments. As far as the Chicks go I am just commenting on some females that I deem Bogus-Lookin so it is what it is. A person can get mad because I say someone is Ugly, but, if thats Fact then it’s a Fact.

        • http://www.xxlmag.com lil’vina

          as far as i’m concerned, you sound ignorant and stupid. dark skinned women have more than just their booties and thickness because there are beautiful dark skinned women. and what you said is not a fact. it’s a opinion, a very dumb opinion and i’m a dark skinned woman and i think i’m beautiful regardless of what people say. and we don’t hate on light skinned women. we get mad because men always go for the girl that’s light skinned and have pretty hair and green eyes. dark skinned are beautiful and have good hair and have class so remember that.

  • Cuban Link

    They shouldve never made black people slaves to begin with.Otherwise we wouldnt have this problem.

    We went from jim crow laws to racism if a white guy coughs on a black person.When will we see the happy median when blacks and whites will actually be egual?

  • Fly Boy

    I like women of all colors. But sometimes I’m in the mood for chocolate thunder other times, I need some Red Bone to go with my red bull.

    Its mostly the fat dumpy old dried up hoes who are trying to trap some fool (who they think doesn’t know how attractive he is before he comes to his senses) in one place.

    Good looking chicks don’t need the club. Guys won’t leave them alone. Old girl and Big girl need the club.

  • Accurate

    LMFAO. Bol, you still all gases up bout that Dead prez track huh?

  • Moe Real

    YEah but I prefer dark-skinned ladies. Wait, is Trina a dark-skinned lady? Am I racist or what? I’ll wait for TPAR to decide…

    I also prefer reading Noz, nullus, over Bol, double-nullus. I guess I am racist. Triple-reverse nullus.

    • these posts are racist

      Whether you’re a racist or not is for you to decide. I don’t know if you are a racist.

      I do know that you’re a dipshit. Challenge me on a substantive point.

      All these cats love to diss and be sarcastic but cannot hold a real discussion or argue a substantive point. Hilarious.

      • LOWENDOFDACHI

        Or they try to imitate what Bol does and fail miserably, resulting in a flood of lame ass jokes in the comment section.

      • Moe Real

        tpar, I thought we’ve been through this already: what part of my comment do you consider to be a challenge?

        I already challenged you a bunch of posts back, when you tried to call me gay. You preach all this shit about equality and empowerment, and then you go and throw some ignorant shit at me. Whatever, you’re a bigot.

  • DC 24

    It is real sad that some of you take this for a joke. Ya’ll should be F’ed up about it. Ya’ll don’t even care about the sh*t your grand parents and great grandparents went though. You can not decide your color. You should apprecitate the sexy a&& dark skin sisters out there. It does not matter. A sexy woman is a sexy woman regardless of her color.

    • Fire

      Amen!

  • Murk

    They should have just followed up the next week with a “brown skin” night. That way, it’s all fair and no one gets offended.

    I just wonder which night would draw the bigger crowd…. and what kind of crowd those events would draw respectively…

  • stoneyisland

    Black on black crime…yout gotta love it:) as Spike Lee’s film school daze proved, black people are our own worst enemy we hate each other as a people and thats why we cant rise above all this bullshit. The white man was a smart muthafucka, he conquered by dividing his enemy, he made light skin blacks feel superior to dark skin blacks, this shit goes all the way back to slavery. all these years later and we as a people still havent opened our third eye to this shit. As the song went “You just a jigaboo” and “you’re just a wannabe”………..

  • DXL

    Lightskinned only getting in for free, well it makes sense from a business P.O.V, how many lighstkinned girls do you see in a club vs how many dark skinned ones, if they did Dark skinned girls free, the promoter would not be making no money, cause 80% of chicks are probably in that dark range.

    It’s kinda f**cked up on paper though, what would’ve been more f8*cke dup is seeing chicks claiming their “light” tryna get in for free….hahahahaha
    Black people, we complain about every damn thing.

  • DXl

    Oh this reminds me, when Buju had a song around 92, saying “me luv me gal, me luv me money and ting ooooo, but most of all me luv me browning”, browning is red bone, well he caught a backlash and he did another one for dark skinned but that song never blew up.

  • kritiq

    stoneyisland is right most faggots in here just generelise shit, people like chichago pappi are the kind of wiggers who sit watching mtv all day and think they know a lot about black people when on the real they have no social life outside the internet.

    this is the only chance most of these faggs get to bash on black people coz they safe at home in their moms basement

  • Stunna (South African)

    It’s quite disgusting how bigots like Chicago Papii post some stupid-ass garbage like “If you disagree with my Preference of women’s beauty of over some random Escaped Slave-lookin chick.”
    His egregiously lame reasoning ability makes me think he’s a Bol wannabe

  • these posts are racist

    Moe Fake,

    I never called you anything of the nature, you’re a liar.

    I said that you stay on my dick, which you do. Every blog whether or not I comment, you always mention me in your comments…think about dipshit.

  • May

    First off, that sh*t about light-skinned chicks getting in the club for free is fucked up. What’s the promoter trying to say about dark-skinned chicks? You know the dark-skinned chicks were gonna complain and put the club on blast all over the place. So he shouldn’t have even came with it.

    Second, to Chicago PaPii…Your comments offened me, as a female with a milk-chocolate complexion…Not all dark-skinned chicks look busted, just as the same way as not all light-skinned females are pretty…There’s ugliness in every shade…How you gonna restrict that to women who don’t pass the “paper bag test”, Chicago PaPii? I think you may need to look harder all around you, because sh*t, your comments were outta pocket

  • yow

    “If this was a white girls only night, obviously that would have been discrimination based on race. But there’s no law saying you can’t discriminate based on shade, no?”

    Duh? There’s no such things as different human races :

    “although “race” is a valid taxonomic concept in other species, it cannot be applied to humans. Many scientists have argued that race definitions are imprecise, arbitrary, derived from custom, have many exceptions, have many gradations, and that the numbers of races delineated vary according to the culture making the racial distinctions; thus they reject the notion that any definition of race pertaining to humans can have taxonomic rigour and validity.”

    So yes discrimination based on “shade” is the exact same thing.

  • yow1

    “If this was a white girls only night, obviously that would have been discrimination based on race. But there’s no law saying you can’t discriminate based on shade, no?”

    Duh? There’s no such things as different human races :
    “although “race” is a valid taxonomic concept in other species, it cannot be applied to humans. Many scientists have argued that race definitions are imprecise, arbitrary, derived from custom, have many exceptions, have many gradations, and that the numbers of races delineated vary according to the culture making the racial distinctions; thus they reject the notion that any definition of race pertaining to humans can have taxonomic rigour and validity.”

  • Jedimonk

    You American Negroes are fucked up in the head for REAL. I’ve never seen so much self hate in a people like i’ve seen from American Blacks. Some of the comments sound like they came from Uncle Ruckus.

    • LowEndofDaChi

      Uncle Ruckus is indeed whom a few of them sound like. Alot of these commenters are children though, and haven’t reached the level of critical thinking needed to see the big picture. Its really funny b/c some claim to be educated and still can’t see how the Willie Lynch syndrome is affecting them today. It’s cool to prefer a certain skintone, that’s an understandle component of physical attraction. But when your judgement is based on a belief that the majority of those at the other end of the color spectrum are “ugly as hell”, then there’s a problem. Keep coming with the self-hate though little brothers, you’re only giving me a better idea of how to raise my children when I have them.

  • Doobie

    Jedimonk is right. I’m an “American Black” and I really don’t understand this self-hate shit :”random Escaped Slave-lookin chick”?!

    @ May and all the beautiful, sexy dark skinned girls out there, ya’ll are the sexiest, most gorgeous and most overall appealing women in the world to me personally. Generally speaking, I actually prefer dark chocolate over anything else (and I’m one that gets attention from women of all shades and races), but I would never go generalizing and making comments about lighter skinned women like some of the ones that I see on this page about darker skinned girls. I see appealing (and not so appealing) women of all shades and races all the time.

    • May

      Good lookin’ out, Doobie!

      :D

  • TrevNYC

    AMEN!!!…most “African-Americans” AND “Halfrican-Americans” are some of the most stupid/ignorant people period….I myself am of African descent and cannot believe the amount of self-hate African-Americans and/or Halfricans have for themselves/eachother…idiot comments like those of Chicago Papi just prove my point…Opinions are opinions but what YOU say about “dark-skinned women” does not make it a FACT sunshine!…
    I’m sorry if you probably suffered some embarassment or ridicule at the hands of a “dark-skinned woman” (hence the hate)…but you shouldn’t generalize especially with all your “education”…you come off sounding like a f*****g idiot… Not a good look my man

  • LowEndofDaChi

    The ignorant stay losing…

  • 4 ya momma

    yea its all so tru the more important issue is why are this bitches so senstive its just kinda a joke not to be taking so serious but the light skin half bread instruments of satin have always rediculed the brown girls so to see such a display of bias in the adult world does im sure bring up deep rooted emotion in alot of these broads, now chicago is i think home of the niggeretes these chicks out here are like men with fat ole asses yikes as far as prefrence goes spanish girls might very well be the sexiest at least until 25 peace.

  • LowEndofDaChi

    @ 4 ya momma:

    They get sensitive b/c alot of us black males refer to them as “bitches and hoes” on a regular basis. I could be wrong, but that might have something to do with it.

    But like I said man, the ignorant stay losing. Some of you shouldn’t even have internet access.

  • Ms. Ty

    My comments were really just sarcasm, but you have to remember the old saying,”Your perception is your reality” . These arguments could go on for days, but they’re pointless because these comments are likely the realities that exist in each indvidual’s mind.

  • CHICAGO PaPii

    How is it “Ignorant” to voice your Opinion about a matter? AND it’s not a thing of me gettin dissed by no Dark-Skinned chicks for me to say that because I am not EVEN attracted to none enough to EVEN conversate with them so thats not the reason, they’re just not that appealing to me. Period. Anyways and to that comment person who called me a “Wigger(?)” how can a person of “Black” blood be a Wigger? Nobody with a IQ higher than LowEndOfTheChi’s body even watches that Coon Network, and FUCK a Willie Lynch shit, the whole “We’s was Slaves-Mentality” is a total Lie to anybody who did Research on the issue of “Slavery” because %25 of “Negroes” were free AND owned Slaves in the Louisianna state in the 1800s and early 1900s. Anyways when a person can’t speak their Mind without a bunch of brain-washed Zombie-like Negroids gettin all “Jesse Jackson” on he/she then it’s a Horrible state within the Urban Community, and believe me it is.

    • LOWENDOFDACHI

      Nobody with an IQ higher than my body? Was that supposed to be funny? You must be quite the lame out there in those Wild 100′s of yours. As May said, there are attractive dark skinned women just as there are not-so-attractive light skinned women out there. Evaluating a black woman’s beauty based on her complexion is no less ignorant than the argument that blacks should be considered as 3/5 human in the Constitution.

      You stay losing lame. Deal with it and stop being such a fucking idiot.

    • supasoak

      @Chicago Poodle
      My Nigga u lame den a bitch u funny cuz u knew by sayin some dumb ignorant ass shit that it would get yo funky ass some attention thas y u said it so u can sit back n laugh at ya self while u look in the mirror at your “MUTT” face…its ok to say u got a preference but to sit there n basically say dark girls aint got shit but ass is so stupid…damm is that all that u want in the world is a bunch of mixed monkey lookin bitches..i mean i aint dark n i aint yella im brown n i feel no shade has a betta look..shit we all black y not b proud..Fuck a mixed bitch cuz im proud to b black n if u ashamed of dark skin or “non-yellas” then take yo happy ass back to slavery porch monkey

    • supasoak

      @Chicago Poodle
      My Nigga u lame den a bitch u funny cuz u knew by sayin some dumb ignorant ass shit that it would get yo funky ass some attention thas y u said it so u can sit back n laugh at ya self while u look in the mirror at your “MUTT” face…its ok to say u got a preference but to sit there n basically say dark girls aint got shit but ass is so stupid…damm is that all that u want in the world is a bunch of mixed monkey lookin bitches..i mean i aint dark n i aint yella im brown n i feel no shade has a betta look..shit we all black y not b proud..Fuck a mixed bitch cuz im proud to b black n if u ashamed of dark skin or “non-yellas” then take yo happy ass back to slavery porch monkey

    • staska

      understand your pain growing up dirt poor in the ghettowith a bunch of dark skinned black people .Ican tell that you have not stepped far beyond middle class or upper middle class.You think you are light skinned to me and other people ,peolple like me you are darksinned .Call yourself creole or whatever you are black . Like spanish , arabs and most people of mixed decent(yes they are) they try to separate themselves from blackness shun it in attempts of proving how much closer to white and further from black they are …lololo..Why is this so funny to me. Because thisis a cycle hahahahha and you are the same as those black negroids you are putting down .I am middle eastern and white .Arabs were the first to enslave the blacks but unlike the whites when an arabic man fathered a child with a black slave he did not disown them as the white man did . In these circles lightskin and dark skin are the same .The shade does not protect you or give you a right of passage over anything .People will assume the same things about you when you step away from the dark black girls and stand next tothe very pale white ..u then will morph into the dark skinned person

  • lil beezy

    nope, never heard of a shade-law. Even thought people come up with all kinds of reasons as to why it would be descrimination. I think it was a good idea. But, then again, that is singling/filtering out a specific color. So, indeed it does seem bad. Lol, there seems to be no other low-key way they could have did promo for it, other than the flyer routine… HaHa!

  • staska

    I understand your pain growing up dirt poor in the ghettowith a bunch of dark skinned black people .Ican tell that you have not stepped far beyond middle class or upper middle class.You think you are light skinned to me and other people like me you are darksinned .Call yourself creole or whatever you are black . Like spanish , arabs and most people of mixed decent(yes they are) they try to separate themselves from blackness shun it in attempts of proving how much closer to white and further from black they are …lololo..Why is this so funny to me. Because thisis a cycle hahahahha and you are the same as those black negroids you are putting down .I am middle eastern and white .Arabs werethe firstto enslave the blacks but unlike the whites when an arabic man fathered a child with a black slave he did not disown them as the white man did . In these circles lightskin and dark skin are the same .The shade does not protect you or give you a right of passage over anything .People will assume the same things aboutyou when you step away from the dark black girls and stand next tothe very pale white girls ..u then will morph into the dark skinned person

    • latoyia the darkeeee

      I am a deeper brown-skinned woman with a certain texture of hair and background. I get hatred from people like you who don’t have a very diverse background.

      I take pride in the Peroneaux name, which issss French Creole. So if that subject comes up black girls awlays think i think i’m better.

      And yes I am better than them. But it’s usually because I speak well, have class, i’m trade on wallstreet (so i work every day) and i’m just plain beautiful from inside out and more humble. lolol.

      I’m proud of me and who I am, just like anyone else.

      Ummm…where you think my hazel eyez come from? My grandmother is half Indian, so when I go back to the Kansas plains to see her, I just stuff that memory of pow-wows, the food, my tradition, my other heritage and culture–i think not. SO just deal with it because i am proud of everything that I am…the white too.

      when my pale as the whitest pale french creole grandfather come to see me, I pretend like he has no part of my lineage. Ya’ll are effed up for real.

  • E- Dot

    haha.. whats the difference between light skinned only and the bbw only parties people host.. im dark skinned and i dont see a problem.. no use arguin with ignorant people. they aren’t gonna change their prospective because you shed some light on their stupidity.. noone does.. lmao! light skinned free.. i agree with whoever said black people complain about everyhthing.. why dont they just host chocolate week after the light skinned week. but then again.. one thing people fail to realize.. chicks go to the club in pairs.. if theres 3-4 chicks.. its bound to be some shade differences… and i iknow i aint rollin dolo to the club to rep the light skinned/dark skinned just to prove a point and get a free drink.. and then again.. who wants to go to the club to meet a guy that only wants to feel on u cuz ur light/dark/skinny/big?? the world is craziee man..

  • tee

    this lightskinnd vs darkskinned thing is dumb as hell. im a biracial female, and iv always though darker women were prettier..CHICAGO, YOUR DUMB AS HELL!!!how dare you say things like that…your views are ignorant!!!
    DARK SKIN WOMEN HE DOES NOT REPRESENT ALL BIRACIAL PEOPLE.. I APOLOGIZE FOR HIS IGNORANTS!!!

  • latoyia the darkeeeee

    I’m hated for the confidence i have as a brown girl…almost like who she think she is? lol

    I think that anyone can have any damn party they want to because this is America? a free country.

    Why you mad a party you weren’t invited to? What diff does it make? Why can’t they get together and have a party?

    Let them feast off those poor-ass broke negroes. I’ll be on Wallstreet doin my thang…laughing my pretty, STOCKBROKER, brown butt off with a white Wallstreet tycoon.

    I do not want those poor stink-breath-like-fire dudes breathing down my neck anyways in some classless ghetto environment…let the trash be trash and don’t interfere with other people’s business!!

    I like colors too foooo! LOLOLL. Greeeen.

    I’m brown-skinned lady. So could someone pleaase tell me what is wrong with having the damn. I don’t see ANY BLACK PEOPLE FIGHTING TO SEEK ME OUT FOR THE FINANCIAL ADVICE THAT I PROVIDE FOR FREEEEE…HELL, NOT LET’S TALK ABOUT THAT!

  • Captain

    Interesting topic indeed. Light skinned black girls? What does an average black person look like? Even light skinned black people don’t have the same shade.

    If Mariah Carey was the standard to gain entry into that club then Halle Berry wouldn’t make it in. Now Mariah is a beautiful woman but to leave Halle Berry at the door would probably result in African-American Civil War.I wonder which side Obama would take. He seems to be somewhere in between the two ladies in terms of the skin shade.It sounds ridiculous doesn’t it?

    But then again, isn’t all form of racial discrimination ridiculous if you look at it from this angle. What are fighting for in the end? Because others have broad noses while other have thin ones? Because others are “black” while others are “white”. But the war continues and doesn’t seem as if it will stop any time soon.

  • http://XXL Tamar

    I am a fair skin black women who gets hit on just because of my color at times, but again I am a beautiful person inside and out. I actually dislike that fact that I have to hear red bone, yella, browing, red, sunshine the list goes on!! Seriously, their are so many WOMEN in this world ranging in so many shades that are just drop down GORGEOUS and they are being embraced all around. Again, you have some people who make their preference known in a way that sound pretty darn disrespectful. To each it’s own, but real talk UGLY comes in all shades,races and size/age. TO ALL EMBRACE ALL BEAUTIES!!!!!!!