Paul Wall Is Blacker Than Most Of You Niggas

Since February is on the wrap up I thought I should squeeze in a drop or two for Black History Month.  It’s not like you humps are gonna open a book anytime this millennium anyhoo.  Here’s a quick question for some of you wannabe hardbody clowns posing behind your iMacs.  How many of you dudes are gonna keep it really real and marry a Black woman?  Seriously, by choice?  I don’t mean like if you had no choice which most of you broke cats will understand, I mean if you had rapper cake or lottery scrilla and you could chose any ethnicity you wanted.  How many of you would still eff with a “sista”?!?

Paul Wall had a choice and he chose a Black chick.  A thick Black chick at that, not even some video ho and you know he has access to them broads too.  I give Paul Wall credit for that even if they end up getting divorced when he finally gets away from the phoney baloney Swishahouse Asylum Atlantic paper and steps up to some Interscope Sony Universal bread.  The main thing is that he kept it real from the gate.  Nobody can take that away from him.  One of the reasons that Paul Wall was able to be a man and give vows to a Black woman is because he wasn’t “bitchmade”.  I know a lot of you dudes flagrantly exploit that language around these comments sections and I wonder if y’all know what it means.  A bitchmade dude is someone that was raised by their moms and/or their grandmoms without a male figure present.

It’s easy to spot bitchmade dudes in the comments sections because they are the types of people that have a hard time accepting truth without emotion.  They also be the first cats to shout out expletives and other derogatory remarks when they can’t keep the pace in a dialogue or debate.  It’s not their fault either but they were taught how to frame their communications in the style of a woman.  Let’s understand the difficulty that a woman faces when trying to raise children by herself.  She doesn’t have too many options for economic stability in front of her so her morals and values when they are related to money will generally be loose and desperate.  Get rich by any means necessary or die trying is what these women instill in their children.  So is it any wonder that someone trying to break into the entertainment business will do whatever he thinks the corporate bosses want him to do?

I’m gonna stop killing these rappers that spit utter claptrap on these mixtapes because some of them have grown up watching their moms put mad lotion on wild niggas ballsachs just to put a peanut butter sardine sandwich inside of their Jansports.  That shit is really real right there, but you never hear that shit on no rap song.  You never hear a rap song where they big up fathers either.  Other than that homo-erotic shit that Weezy has with Baby.  Maybe there’s one or two songs out there but most of the shit is always on some ‘Dear Momma’ shit.  This is why I give Paul Wall his props because he is definitely gonna be a father to his children.  So when his kids get grown and they have to choose between being shitbags that will do anything for paper, or being grown folks who can negotiate the moral responsibility that comes with being an adult they will have the foundation in place to make that choice.  There ain’t nothing wrong with being grown.

Tell me I’m lying.

  • brown125th

    Dude, please grow up and learn something about life. Damn near everything you said was untrue. Looks like you needed more time with your mother in your life, or your speaking what you went through when you were growing up.

    • http://Live Stacey

      Paul Wall is not “bitchmade” cause he was raised in a home where there were no male figures. That implies that the female or females who raised him where bitches. A “bitchmade” man to me is the one who has children and for whatever reason, chooses not to take care of them. I’m a single mom so I guess that means that my son will be “bitchmade”? NO BABY! That means that he was raised by a strong black beautiful bitch like myself.

  • thatdukeSuave

    Real Talk.

  • jacquez
  • thecollinb

    color me ignorant but i dont get what you’re trying to say?
    if i’m paraphrasing correctly, once a majority of black men start making wire transfer money they are more than likely going to marry someone outside their race, correct? And because Paul “I could probably stand to have Chamillionaire writing my rhymes again” Wall has made a little folding money and had a father in his life, he’s “blacker” than most of us niggas, correct?
    smh
    *goes back to reading The Miseducation of the Negro*

  • Rizzop

    Wow. You mad at something? I aint as liow to throw insults at someone i dont know, but WTF was that? Every black man has to marry a black women?(ive never dated a white women, but damn) Paul wall is not “bitchmade” because he married a black women? But bitchmade is someone who was raised by females, with no male figure around? I guess this is a blog but a very uneducated one. As a matter of fact, there are words for black men that jump on white guys dicks for who they marry or the people that are around during their childhoods……But I aint that type of dude, I dont bang on the net. Homie i actually have enjoyed your blog, you get people talking, but what did this have to do with anything? Paul wall(have you ever met the guy to know he is going to be anything other than a horrible rapper?)”They also be the first cats to shout out expletives and other derogatory remarks when they can’t keep the pace in a dialogue or debate.”——Didnt you just do that?

  • derfla the hus’la

    wtf???

  • DANTE SEVERE

    Co-sign. Especially the “bitchmade” definition. You can tell these boys from ones with fathers by listening to them speak at the playground. These are the same type of cats who will shoot because they dont have the balls to knuckle up.

  • http://brandonsoderberg.blogspot.com brandonsoderberg

    I don’t think I’ve ever been so confused reading a blog entry in my life…

  • EReal

    LOL
    Man you just shouted out MADD peeps on this site. Look at em, their feathers are already ruffled.
    What yall dont get is, you take what you wanna take from these blogs. Obviously if you are SO offended and pissed off, than you took from it that you are bitchmade. LOL.

    Even tho, I do like sistas, they dont like me. So Imma marry a Latino Chick, they age better. They also say shit like “Ai PaPi” in bed. Ch-YeaH!
    Maybe not really real enuff for u Sunday, but really real enuff for me.

    Bitch made D’Bags, grow some bizzals. LMAO.

    1 hunned.

  • weezybaby

    im black/italian but im black…

    i was raised round blacks and live in hood

    i wanna bad rican or bad m,ixed white girl

  • Davinche

    LOL, you know whats funny. This post shows that YOU fit the definition of a ‘bitchmade’ person.

    Seriously, read your own definition and then read you own post.

  • Rizzop

    One of the reasons that Paul Wall was able to be a man and give vows to a Black woman is because he wasn’t “bitchmade”……..
    Even tho, I do like sistas, they dont like me. So Imma marry a Latino Chick, they age better…..He still talking bout you dog!

  • http://www.myspace.com/sirjantzversatile SIR JANTZ

    YO what up…I’m bout post a follow up to something Redman said on “ALL HIP-Hop.com”.

    U AIN”T NO GANGSTER

    Hey…I am a artist like most of you people on the internet. I mean, there are a lot of talented individuals out there. Esso is pretty tight. I”m feeling Legit, Anomoly, Kidz in the Hall, LUDA AND TI…..I mean its a lot of people that I enjoy listening to (REDMAN AND METH). The only problem I have with this music shit is these “wannabe” gangsters.

    Gangster- gunman,dealer, underworld leader, criminal racketerr.

    Now that we got the dictionary term, let’s get to the realness of this bullshit. How many of these “rappers” do you actually think are gangsters? I mean everybody can’t be. Like with me, if you hurt my family, try me, or my money…yeah!!!!…I might do some gangster shit…..but I don’t lable myself as a gangster because I know what gangsters do. See, these cats are messing up the game and they gonna end up like Hoffa (just being real). I learned a closed mouth don’t get fed but a moving tongue can sink ships. I don’t drop names…but you lames know who you are. YOu ain’t got to sell yourself to make “real” music. Look at LL Cool J. He came out with a fire ass song for the streets but the whole time he was trying to appreal to the ladies. I mean….if you listen to T.I. first LP I’m Serious…you can see why he’s the self-proclaimed King of the South. His music represented a movement at that time. Even Luda ( I think those two need to make a song together). The first song I ever heard him on was “Phat Rabbit” produced by Timberland (and we all know what a “phat rabbit is”). Pay Attention (yeah…I”m feeling DJ Drama)…you cats need to look at what you doing. Now I can understand if you came from that lifestyle (JEEZY is an acception) but if you don’t know what the fuck you talking about…chances are you won’t last long. I’ve seen one hit wonders my whole life and I always wonder…what happened to them cats. What happened? Who knows….I know this….the game is about to go back to the essence of hip-hop. People like KRS_ONE, RAKIM, NAS…are finally about get their shine. So for all you fakes ass rapping, think you got weight, wanna be trappers…….YOUR TIME IS UP!!!

  • http://dsf

    Quit with the psychological talk unless you’ve got some credible training to back it up.

  • thatwhitedude

    lol, great post billy, i was laughin right off the bat when i read the title…a lot of what you said is true about people who are raised solely by their mother, however if my info (which i get from going to the same HS and living in the same area Paul Wall (Slayton) grew up in..) is correct, i don’t think paul’s dad was around much, which sorta goes against what you said about him, i think it was just him and his mom, who is a school teacher, and imo paul has been fake since day 1, he created a ghetto persona to sell to consumers, he lived in the suburbs in a fairly well off area, moved to the ghetto area to get street cred, was a band nerd in HS, was very anti-drug, liquor, and cursing when he was with CCC and chamil, now he acts like he is a leansipper/weed-blower/gangsta/etc., doesn’t jam dj screw and knows jackshit about screw but he acts like he is and tries to rep screw like he was in the S.U.C. or something, got a frickin lil flip tat on him to honor flip gettin shot and survivin (look it up) but now he talks shit about flip, and he went against his best friend since HS (chamil) and tried to jump his brother (rasaq), and now works with swisha house cuz he is in it solely for the money and doesn’t care about makin good music, call me a hater if you want but everythin i said is fact…so even though paul married a black woman, “kept it hood” or whatever, and will be a good father, he is still a fraud ass fake wannabe gangsta who created a street persona, he is the definition of a wannabe and makes shit music just cuz he is a sellout, i wish he wasn’t from houston cuz he makes us look bad. 1

  • thatwhitedude

    and just as a final word, most people in htown feel the way i feel about paul williken, he is a joke in houston, as is mike jones, and most of the new swisha house…cuz swisha house used to be respected back in the day and put out good mixtapes and helped make houston national, now its just BS that watts uses to get rich off of and they suck ass now, if it were up to houston paul and mike wouldn’t be famous, other better unknown-nationally rappers in houston would, cuz they truly deserve it.

  • EReal

    ^^
    Co-Sign.

    Chamillionaire came out on some whole other lyrical shit and just destroyed swisha, I mean str8^ destroyed them, mang. I was listenin to his verse on KING KONG, which woulda been a tight track without Jibbs, and Chamill just kills it. I mean he’s not talking about anything of substance really, but how he switches his flow 3 times is crazy. Also Chamill KILLS it on the Trick Daddy song and on Dope Boy Fresh as well. He’s runnin shit in H-Town, and Dike Jones n Swisha are OVA.
    Although, they didnt help themselves by makin trash ass rap music. Theres this whiteboy that sells mixtapes at the flea market down here and his mixtapes have more good tracks than Mike Jone’s whole album and they’re half as annoying. LMAOOO!

    1 hunned.

  • dj K-Nyce

    you dropped some knowledge son, i think people def. underestimate th power of a father in a boys life.

    quote:
    Even tho, I do like sistas, they dont like me. So Imma marry a Latino Chick, they age better.

    are you crazy, they cool & all……but black dont crack!!!

  • E AKA THE REAL NORIEAGA

    No disrespect to the sistas but if I was Paul Wall I’d be trying to get with Shakira or J.Lo

  • My Effin’ Opinion

    EReal Says:

    February 22nd, 2007 at 10:57 am

    “..So Imma marry a Latino Chick..”

    ^^^^^
    I love my latina woman too, but there loud and arguementative like a muthafucka!!! .. I’ve always wanted to try an Asian chick, I heard they’re obedient and they cook good .. LOL

  • My Effin’ Opinion

    DANTE SEVERE Says:

    February 22nd, 2007 at 10:25 am

    “…These are the same type of cats who will shoot because they dont have the balls to knuckle up…”

    ^^^^^
    People always say that, but I’ve always thought that it takes more balls to shoot somebody cuz you know that you either gonna go to prison for life for murder or at the very least serve some real hard time for attempted murder.

    It’s easy to fight somebody cuz there’s no consequences … your either gonna beat the shit outta somebody or get beat up. That’s it.

    My effin’ opinion is that if your too scared to “knuckle up” then you dam sure ain’t gonna shoot nobody.

  • http://rapliesandvideotape.blogspot.com Craig B

    Jim Brown was raised by women.

  • http://www.lemonparty.org Spaceman

    Stick to writing about rap and ignore the social commentary, because you come across as blindingly ignorant and short-sided.

  • Snead

    This writer is very sad. He doesn’t understand the beauty of the world. If you restrict yourself to just a single race of women you may never be happy. Ignorant and close minded viewpoint.

  • http://bgdboom.blogspot.com Enigmatik

    Thanks, ho.

  • thatwhitedude

    “People always say that, but I’ve always thought that it takes more balls to shoot somebody cuz you know that you either gonna go to prison for life for murder or at the very least serve some real hard time for attempted murder.

    It’s easy to fight somebody cuz there’s no consequences … your either gonna beat the shit outta somebody or get beat up. That’s it.

    My effin’ opinion is that if your too scared to “knuckle up” then you dam sure ain’t gonna shoot nobody.”
    ^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^
    what you say soooorta makes sense but not really since most people don’t think about the longterm consequences when they pull a trigger, its easier to pull a trigger to hurt someone than it is to use your own hands to hurt someone, which is why the original dude is right when he said it takes more balls to knuckle up than it does to shoot someone, your point is flawed in that people dont think that they could go to jail if they shoot someone, people just shoot without thinking all the dam time

  • MarcusGarvey

    Check out Nas’ Poppa was a Playa, and the Jay-Z Verse on Moment of Clarity.
    About Their Fathers.

    1

  • MarcusGarvey

    checkout NaS’ Poppa was a Playa and Jay-Z verse on Moment of Clarity.

  • http://www.MOREMENOCAL.com Andres Menocal

    Great social commentary. I still don’t think Paul Wizzle would be a great role model for my children. Church.

    http://www.MOREMENOCAL.com

  • C.Rob

    since when has it become “wrong” to marry a black woman, and “victorious” to marry a woman of another race??? WOW, i really feel bad for future :-(

  • EReal

    @ TWD & Effin

    Im kinda split on that one, too. Because, IMO, I always thought it took more nads to fight like a man. The difference is that in a fight if you get your ass whooped you hafta be man enough to take an asswhoopin. Now, I get TWD in that most people dont think about the consequences before they shoot. I guess some people do though. If you wanna kill someone, you’re gonna kill em. I’ve just seen too many stupid ass kids down here pullin out and not bustin. Someone gets in their face or comes to whoop their ass and they just pull out to get the kid to go away and try to act tuff. Well that didnt work out to well for Kevin. He pulled out to get these cats off em, then this lil pussy ran and hid his piece. The kids caught up to him and whooped his bitch ass and took his piece. Balls to pull but none to shoot, and hes lucky he didnt get killed. These lil cats round here are fuckin stupid. IMO being tuff has nothing to do with guns. Your fists and, believe it or not, being able to TAKE an asswhoopin as well as give one makes you tuff. Guns just make you a killer and a waste of a life and mind. Str8^.

  • rbgstar

    wtf???? you are soo stupid/ bitchmade is a dude that was raised by a grandmother or mother what????? pathetic

  • My Effin’ Opinion

    TWD & EREAL – good points

    I guess it also depends on who you pull out on too… if it’s a random stranger you might be inclined to buck at somebody if they don’t know you cuz the chances of being caught are slimmer (as oppose to fighting him) … then let’s say if it’s somebody who knows you and can tell the cops where you live and shit or worse, not tell the cops and come see you about it. Then you put yourself in a position where you either hafta kill this person or perhaps get done in yourself …

    All in all, I guess it may be easier for a bitch nigga to shoot somebody that you don’t know after all then try to fight him …

    But to all the bitch niggaz out there .. know this … If you’re too scared to fight somebody on the street and you cap ‘em and get caught, best believe that you’re gonna be fight catz EVERYDAY of yo’ life in the pen. So either which way, you ain’t gettin’ out of it.

    Holla!

  • John Brown

    I have read the article or blog whatever you want to call it. And all I can come up is that is contradicting is like listening to a NAS album.

  • b-ease

    I dont necessarily disagree with anything you wrote, regardless of how ignorant it comes off.

    The problem is that you are not an engaging writer. Reading your blog really shows what seperates a shock blooger like Byron Crawford and one like yourself. Wit. Self-deprecation. A whole lot of intangibles that you dont have in your writing reportoire.

    Tell me I’m lying.

  • John Brown

    I think that it makes your a bigger man if you fight with your fist. Anyone can bust a gun, but few can dish out whoopings. Now if you ever gonna pull a gun and shoot someone, look at them in the eye and kill them. Thats what seperates the killers from the “im tough cause i can shoot a gun” type of guys. Me I rather fight mano e mano. I dont need to shoot no one to be tough.

  • EReal

    ^ No doubt on the lookin in the eye shit.
    I always liked that one Yayo song Murder where he says “Dont run up on a whip and spray somethin, lemme see you walk up to a ni**a, blow his brains out, stand there for two minutes, then run.. mothafucka” That shit was hella grimy, but true. All these rap cats get shot in the whip, except Proof (R.I.P. BIG PROOF). People just wanna run up and spray a car or w/e thats weak. Be a man, if your gonna do it, do it right. Not that I would do it either way, LOL. But still, u get my meaning.

  • DANJA29

    On the shooting vs. fighting issue… here’s the thing. If you shoot someone, you know it’s gonna hurt or possibly kill them. And if you shoot somebody over some little shit, it’s clear that that’s the only way you know how to solve your issues. It’s ultimately the easy way out. A fight is more of a thing where you could potentially end up gettin’ your ass kicked. If you’re scared to take an ass-whippin’, so you just figure “shoot the nigga to avoid the potential scars”… yeah, a bitch-ass thing to do.

    Same thing with people who react super-emotionally when they can’t win an argument and just yell and scream to get their “point” across. Bitch-ass thing to do.

    Alot of niggas got their feelings HURT off this one, LOL.

  • Puerto-Black

    “A bitchmade dude is someone that was raised by their moms and/or their grandmoms without a male figure present.”

    Fuck u. sound like a damn fool. gump

  • http://xxlmag.com Billy X. Sunday

    ^My point exactly

  • Incilin

    Well I’m with ya on this grown man shit. And your theory bout being bitchmade makes sense to me. Alto I’m not sure marrying a black chick makes u more of a man.

  • http://xxlmag.com Billy X. Sunday

    Alright, maybe marrying a Black woman to keep it real is a stretch. If I had rapper money I would order me a Philipino chick from eBay or something. Those war baby broads give head like they mean it.

  • mannyworld33

    @ ereal, twd and effin’:

    I THINK SAIGON SAID IT BEST: “AIN’T NO HAMMERS IN JAIL SO THE REAL YOU WILL GET EXPOSED”.
    ANY SCARY ASS CHUMP CAN PULL OUT AND EVEN POP OFF BUT ARE YOU READY FOR THE AFTERMATH? IT’S LIKELY YOU WILL HAVE POLICE AND WHOEVER WAS DOWN/ COOL WITH SAID PERSON AFTER YOU AND MOST CATS AIN’T READY 4 NONE OF THAT.

    IMO, SHOOT THE FAIR ONE NOT THE GUN!

    BUT A FATHER CAN TEACH YOU THAT IF HE’S AROUND, RIGHT SUNDAY?

  • YOUNG STUNNA

    get off his dick sunday

  • OranJuiceJones

    Man you need to step your writing game up

  • OranJuiceJones

    Man you need to step your writing game up

  • EReal

    LMAO@ SUNDAY

    “If I had rapper money I would order me a Philipino chick from eBay or something. Those war baby broads give head like they mean it. ”

    Classic.

  • EReal

    @ MANNY

    Yeah fosho, I always watch that show on A&E called “The First 48″. Yall should check it if you can, its crazy. It shows how in 48 hours they go from a body to havin your ass locked up. 9 times outta 10 its the person not having a good alibi or story and their peeps rattin em out or associates of the crime flippin. People talk to much, half the times they’ll say “Our case is circumstantial, we need a confession” then they lean on em till they crack.
    Regardless, murder is hard to get away with. Especially if you have beef with the person, dead give away.
    Murder isnt easy to get away with anymore, unless you have soldiers or madd dough.
    And yeah, Sai was right. But theres still gemstars and shanks and shit. The thing is unless you’re in max security doin madd time, people dont wanna lose their gain time so they’re pretty cool unless you fuck up, for the most part. Its those cats that are there for life or 10 – 20 years that dont give a fuck you gotta watch for. The bottom line still is your bitch ass will get exposed.

    1 hunned.

  • hhhoootttboozz4life

    suday is fucking gay as shit fuck this dude xxl needs to get rid of this homo

  • thecollinb

    BILLY X.SUNDAY
    “those war baby broads give head like they mean it”
    Move to Va Beach ASAP!!!
    i still wouldnt marry one on acct that they’ll ship all your belongings back to the Phillipines while you’re sleeping

  • http://www.myspace.com/16kingz da’realestwritin’

    fuck this post, paul wall ain’t shit!
    that nigga make like a g more than I do after taxes.his kids is gon’ be some butt divin’ bikini boys due to the fact that “daddy neva sold anotha record after still tippin” and that sell out bitch gon leave his pasty ass to be in a Pimp c dawg video to make ends meet.

  • My Effin’ Opinion

    thatwhitedude Says:

    February 22nd, 2007 at 11:45 am
    lol, great post billy, i was laughin right off the bat when i read the title…a lot of what you said is true about people who are raised solely by their mother, however if my info (which i get from going to the same HS and living in the same area Paul Wall (Slayton) grew up in..) is correct, i don’t think paul’s dad was around much, which sorta goes against what you said about him, i think it was just him and his mom, who is a school teacher, and imo paul has been fake since day 1, he created a ghetto persona to sell to consumers, he lived in the suburbs in a fairly well off area, moved to the ghetto area to get street cred, was a band nerd in HS, was very anti-drug, liquor, and cursing when he was with CCC and chamil, now he acts like he is a leansipper/weed-blower/gangsta/etc., doesn’t jam dj screw and knows jackshit about screw but he acts like he is and tries to rep screw like he was in the S.U.C. or something, got a frickin lil flip tat on him to honor flip gettin shot and survivin (look it up) but now he talks shit about flip, and he went against his best friend since HS (chamil) and tried to jump his brother (rasaq), and now works with swisha house cuz he is in it solely for the money and doesn’t care about makin good music, call me a hater if you want but everythin i said is fact…so even though paul married a black woman, “kept it hood” or whatever, and will be a good father, he is still a fraud ass fake wannabe gangsta who created a street persona, he is the definition of a wannabe and makes shit music just cuz he is a sellout, i wish he wasn’t from houston cuz he makes us look bad. 1

    ^^^^^^^
    “I believe him yo’ … I don’t why, but I do” – Scarface from Half Baked

  • SONNY CHEEBA

    good post, very good points- but WAY too real for XXL.com

    i often think to myself whether i’m gonna marry a black woman just to keep that lineage. But then i realize i’m gonna go with the flow, whomever i end up with- is who i end up with.

    But i’m DEFINITELY gonna adopt alil black boy or girl and give them a life far beyond the average child. My mothers was adopted, so i’ve seen the impact of something like that…

  • `nineteen80sbaby`

    god this blog is terrible!

    I keep trying to read it, but I can never make it past the first paragraph. XXL, just give Dame or Jim Jones or somebody else even Project Pat a blog already instead of this Bol clone.

  • BIPASHA

    WRITTEN CREATIVELY, PERHAPS PRESUMPTUOUS AND JUDGMENTAL, BUT STILL A MARVEL TO READ.

    BIP
    SFC

  • jj Jumper

    @EReal- you must not know any Latinas. Age well? They break down like a motherfucker when they start dropping babies. That’s the real reason why J-Ho is childless. She knows what’s up.

  • choklitgirlwonder

    Reading this blog and many of the comments that followed made me throw up in my mouth a little bit. “Bitchmade”??? First of all, how little respect do you have for women in general, to use this terminology is beyond me. Are all black women worthy of praise and accolades in regards of the job they’ve done as single mothers? Hell no. But the overwhelming majority are hard-working, strong women who WORK for their shit and don’t rely on sugar-daddies to take care of the rent. And what about all the dead-beat niggas (I hate that word but it applies here) who don’t man up, and help grow the seed they planted? I guess they get off scot-free, huh? And apparently only males who are “bitchmade”, shoot instead of fight. According to the author, if a boy has a father present, he MUST have more balls, because good or bad, he had his father around to show him “how to be a man”. I guess guys who grew up watching their mothers’ get fire beat out of them by their husbands, must have more balls too right? After all, their fathers were around…

    You’re all missing the point. It doesn’t take more balls to shoot and face jail. It doesn’t take big balls to fight. It takes
    the BIGGEST balls to walk away from stupid petty shit and still know that you’re a secure in your manhood…but I wouldn’t know anything about that. I’m just a “bitchmade” black female.

  • calichick

    Great post. I’m sure you knew that the majority of these posters would not comprehend.

  • Dat Girl

    “A bitchmade dude is someone that was raised by their moms and/or their grandmoms without a male figure present.”

    That was a hard one for people to swallow. As a women, I don’t like anyone referring to my mom or grandma as a bitch, but…it’s true, the whole post has it’s truth and the people who got their feelings hurt on this one…grow up and realize the truth, “there’s nothing wrong with being grown.”

    This post wasn’t really about Paul Wall (for those who where stuck on that) it made a weak attempt to use Paul was as an example. The title got you to read it didn’t it, it got me. Cause he’s saying some really true things.

    On the shooting vs knuckling up debate, No one I know who shoots people thinks they are going to jail when they do it and if they do they don’t care about going because they have already been several times. To me that’s not realllly that tough. You shoot someone then you are back in jail. OR you knucle up get your ass beat and then have to see that person again like 2 days later with EVERYONE knowing you got your ass whoop..HMMM…whose harder? I don’t know.

    But, I love reading how you guys stereotype races of women.LOL it is soooo hilarious. I’m a black women and I guess I don’t fit the extra thick, loud, selfish, weave wearing, finger snapping, baby daddy having, black girl or VIDEO HO…DAMN, that was harsh. Those are MY (as a black women)only choices!! HA! I guess I fit somewhere between Black/Latino/Asian by ya’lls definition. Pure comedy!

  • Kammy

    Wow, so a man that was raised by a woman is bitchmade. That is news to me. When you were posting this blog did it ever once occur to you that yes sometimes men do actually walk away from their children and don’t look back so what should the mother do give her kid up for adoption because the father couldn’t deal with the responsibility of his actions. Men don’t always become men just because their father was around either believe that. And as for that comment below that you posted what world are you living in?

    “She doesn’t have too many options for economic stability in front of her so her morals and values when they are related to money will generally be loose and desperate. Get rich by any means necessary or die trying is what these women instill in their children.”
    My mother divorced my father when I was 2 months old. And she worked and took care of me. And she has never once opened her mouth to me in my 31 years and told me or my brothers to get rich by any means necessary she told our asses we better stay in school and made sure that we did. I am still in school getting my criminal justice degree and although I am a woman to me alot of what you typed sounds like straight garbage.
    You didn’t even say some women.You said that is what these women instill in their children. I know a number of men whose fathers took the easy way out and they are not these emotional bitches you are making them out to be.

  • BlackBoy

    YOUR BEST POST EVAR… AND ALL THE COMMENTS ABOUT “BITCHMADE” JUST GO TO SHOW YOU HOW LITTLE PEOPLE KNOW THE HISTORY OF THE SLANG THEY USE.

    “Bitchmade” started to mean you were just that “made by bitches” no father figure, somewhere down the road it morphed to mean “pussy nigga”.

    real talk…

  • WHAT?

    How is a white boy marrying a black chick keeping it real? Is she keeping it real by marrying a white dude? What the hell was this post even about anyway?

  • John Brown

    I will marry whoever I want to. And if my “homeboys” dont approve or my “family” dont approve of her then they can live without me. Because at the end of the day I put food on my table, a roof over my head (no homo) and clothes on my back. So many people now-a-days care what others think. The REAL man dont care bout the other man ideas or what they think.

  • SUGA

    First off,Niggas and MEN are two different breeds. Being a REAL ASS NIGGA , is a-whole-nother article entirely (and mind you having that title aint no accomplishment. you dont have to add -er to the end, it has the SAME meaning…)Having a father figure is nice, but unfortunately not everyone gets the opportunity. SO i can see where you might need to tell these deadweight muthafuckas to step up to the plate and as MEN take part in their childrens lives (the same old ass conversation). But to refer to PAUL WALL as REAL? Iunno bout that.What’s the point in bringing up Paul Wall and his choice of pussy anyway? lol. I mean dude, 4 real, how u kno he aint just doin that shit to get a rep as being hood? ( ive seen plenty of whiteboys tryna fit in the “hip hop culture”, he dont strike me as any different…)Anyway, i dont hate or discriminate against people hooking up with others outside they race. We need to mix as much chocolate into these other races as possible. All I really wanted to say is, your article has some twists and turns, so it makes it harder to understand if you’re trying to pass judgement or if you’re trying to educate and motivate? Single parenting, black women, the breakdown in our very own african american culture (the use of nigga to describe our class of people *smh*), stereotypes, etc. It just sounds like you wrote this just to criticize our people….

    anyway VOTE FOR BARACK…if that muthafucka runs and u can visit me if u want here:

    http://www.myspace.com/mzhotniz86

    i like convos like dis…no ignorant ass people please!!

  • Guest

    You’ve got to be kidding. You’re being sarcastic right? What kind of sense does the bs you’re writing make. Every woman that raises her child on her own does not have to drop to the level of fucking a raggedy ass nigga like your self to make some paper. I alone provide for myself and my child and I work damn hard to do it and if anybody is Bitchmade it’s you. I’m sorry if your mommy did hug you growing up

  • canne71

    That was by fair the most poignant and insightful post I have EVER read on the Net. Wake up black people! Wake the FUCK UP!!!!!

  • http://www.myspace.com/poisonousdarthfc Poisonous Dart

    Okay…this blog had a point, right? I want the two minutes I spent reading this^ back. One.

  • Boner Jams 03

    Father Dedications:

    Nas – Poppa was a Player
    Ed O.G.- and Da Bulldogs – Be a father to ya child

    …………And thats pretty much it

  • johjam8

    This post is ignorant and pointless! Whomever wrote this, obviously had nothing else to write about.

  • Jerz!

    Son, that was an incredible post. Thanks for putting up something worthy of thinking about after you’re done reading it (no hot garbage).

  • Kammy

    Blackboy I understand what you are saying but at the same time is that the way mothers are looked at? Single mothers are the equivalent to a 4 legged animal? Wow.

  • Lawyerbarbie

    What? Is this even in english? So confused…

  • Dat Girl

    I agree that men nowadays care TOO much about what people think. Especially in LA….

  • ALEX2.0

    i wont even date “bitchmade” guys. been there, done that. its not worth it in the end.

    great post by the way!

  • thejadeisme

    As a thick sista with a white man I appreciate you giving pall wall his props!

  • Patrick

    You are lying about one thing.

    My mother is the exception to your unjustified and sterotypical image of a single black mother. My mother was married to my father but divorced him after 2 years of marriage because he was physically abusive. He did not want the divorce so he refused to care for us. My mom didn’t sit around collecting welfare or screw every guy that she saw, instead she work 2-3 jobs at a time to care for us.

    Maybe you were fortunate enough to grow up in a 2 parent household but that doesn’t make you better or give you the right to claim that single black mother’s screw around to make ends meet.

    You sure you ain’t BITCHMADE!

  • TheUltimate

    Though I wouldn’t use the word “bitchmade” to describe these fatherless dudes out here, it’s worth mentioning that dudes w/ no father figures act like women. All the dudes on here catching feeling just prove my point. Man up already.

  • http://www.camronistrash.com vS

    How do you, er ummm…say…trash?

  • Doc

    this is some straight hog shit if u ask me, read one of the first lines “It’s not like you humps are gonna open a book anytime…” meaning this blog entry is not geared towards people who read.

    talkin bout bitch made and their tendencies, what are you the ghetto Dr.phil?

  • Dropping knowledge like bombs over Bagdad

    Wow, it amazes me that so many people find this piece of writing so prolific. It’s okay. Nothing more,nothing less. His points aren’t all that great, and it isn’t the realest thing I’ve heard, but I can appreciate his views on marrying black women.

    I’m all for “love has no color,” but some of the comments here show that some of you guys really do pay way too much attention to stereotypes (don’t believe the hype) which in turn may show that some of you may have deeper issues dealing with YOURSELF that you may want to look at.

    The whole “I’m going to marry me something other than a black woman if I have money” complex is sad.

  • NickeNitro

    DRE CONFIRMS DETOX IN 2007!! SOMEONE AT THIS SITE SHOULD GET OFF THEIR FAT ASS AND WRITE ABOUT IT!!

  • http://www.myspace.com/kracktheking KR

    So Paul Wall is real AND blacker because he married a black woman?

    Smh @ this being some type of pseudo-Black History Month post.

    This shit has nothing to do with anyone being blacker, it’s about being a MAN. Whether you are black, white, hispanic, it’s about being a man. What you are describing is more of a poverty issue.

    What does it do for people like you to have this soap box you can stand on in which you can spew a bunch of bullshit? I try not to post negative comments too much because people ARE entitled to their opinion, but most of the shit that appears on this blog is trash.

  • Hurricane Game

    God Dammit I Just wanna Kufi Smack you sometimes Sunday.

  • original black chick

    this is the most ignorant shit i’ve read in a long time…and i really don’t get the point…are you saying that because paul wall married a black woman we should expect he will be there for his children? is the point to praise him for marrying a black woman in one breath and disrespect black women in the next?

    this is just ignorant…

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  • CJ

    Your lying. Plain and simple. I had a single mom and she didn’t but lotion on no man, not in my presence. I never had one “uncle” who wasn’t related to me. My mom worked hard and brought home good dough. Being bitch made is alot more than that. But I guess you wouldn’t know . . .

  • Jackie

    How does Paul Wall dating a black woman make him blacker than black people? That’s an ignorant statement. My sister’s boyfriend of 4 years is white…and he’s still WHITE AS HELL with no closer connection to the black experience other than a few G-Unit albums. I stopped reading in the middle of this blog because you were trying to make sense but….not…quite…there.

  • GLAMDIVA

    As a black sista, I could care less if black men wanna date white chicks.. cuz ya’ll are lazy, aint got no jobs, no money, no car, live with momma and granny, got bad credit, cant get a loan, dont know how to cut the grass or take out the garbarge, play PS3 all day long, smoke weed, eat up all the food, bring one little dead limp rose for Valentines and that makes you think you entitled to get some that night, cant buy baby diapers cuz you spent the last bit of money you got buying some lame fake chain at the Pakistani dude in the Mall no good niggaz….. I’m rollin with the white and Puerto Rican dudes….Holla!

  • Were Read 2 Def

    >Those war baby broads give head like they mean it.

    ^^^Now that’s what I’m talking about.

  • moe

    why do you make this type of comments about women. some women work two three jobs to survive not puttin lotin on some nigga. what’s up wit ya mom’s what she have to do? how were you raised to make you look at women this way?

  • Alexis

    # Spaceman Says:
    February 22nd, 2007 at 12:22 pm

    Stick to writing about rap and ignore the social commentary, because you come across as blindingly ignorant and short-sided.
    ________________________________________

    Please tell that nigga again! I can appreciate the point he was attempting to make but he never quite got there.

    And lets extend that made up definition of bitchmade to include all these niggas on here who come from a black woman but have mananged to relegate us to the bitches you fuck with before you have money. Self hate is evident. You can fuck every latin chick and South America and won’t shit change.

  • Sportsdiva

    So, women can’t frame a debate or communicate without being emotional huh…test me homeboy!
    Your argument started so good and got so ignorant…emotional even, how ironic is that?!?!

    Make it a great day!

  • http://smokingsection.net DrewRicketts

    Billy Sunday is really stooping for some views. I respect your gangsta on posting such a wildly, ludicrous and unfounded theory but damn…

    You’re better than that.

  • disdic

    I will pray for you, your utter disrespect to a large portion of the black community is self hatred, sad and it is unfortunate

  • amazed

    that is the realest shit i have ever read….Happy Black History

  • Cuban Link

    Fucking nigger what do u know about calling someone bitchmade?Im out tho cuz I aint debating about this shit bitch lol.

    But on some real, marrying a black woman while ur white either means ur a real gangster or just a huge wigger.Im leaning towards the wigger side.I mean i can see a white dude marrying a chick like Ashanti, beyonce and thoes types of chicks but not the one Paul Wall married.but who cares he sucks anyway.Maybe hes really just in love.Lol j/p

  • Oh Hell NO

    “But on some real, marrying a black woman while ur white either means ur a real gangster or just a huge wigger.Im leaning towards the wigger side.I mean i can see a white dude marrying a chick like Ashanti, beyonce and thoes types of chicks but not the one Paul Wall married.but who cares he sucks anyway.Maybe hes really just in love.”

    Damn, that is the dumbest shit I have read in awhile. Idiots like you perpetuate the ignorant stereotype that the only desirable black women look like Beyonce, Tyra Banks or Halle Barry. Clearly you assume that guys only appreciate black women that look like honey-dipped white girls, WRONG!

    Since when are the only white guys that marry black chicks either “real gangsta” or “wiggers?” What fucking world do you live in? I don’t know what your socio-economic, or educational background is, but if you have any level of higher education or any experience outside of whatever small world you live in, you would know there are plenty of white guys with black chicks that not only aren’t gangster, but have no idea what a wigger is. Wake up, and educate yourself before you make assinine statements.

  • ChuDoc

    1) The blogger makes a good point about some black males being *bitchmade*. Single momma’s need to be the mother and the father, and this fucks a son up. When the male reaches a certain age he does not want to answer to a female, because males are meant to be the breadwinners, and not the other way about. Its a pride thing. Hence this male will probably disrespect females for the rest of his lifetime, out of insecurity. AND THE CYCLE OF GETTING A CHICK PREGNANT AND NOT BEING A FATHER CONTINUES, OUT OF SAID DISRESPECT.

    or it could make them a better father.

    BUT WHY DOES THIS ONLY APPLY TO BLACK MALES? SURELY ITS THE SAME ALL AROUND THE WORLD IN SINGLE PARENT FAMILIES. Whats it got to do with the race of the girl your wifing? If you hate women, you hate women, doesnt matter the color.

    2) And wtf has Paul Wall got to do with this anyway? 80% of the people responding are wondering, scratching thier heads like why the fuck you would make a half decent point and then bring this walking talking gimmick into the equation. You could have gave us many black m.c’s who have came from broken homes and went on to be great fathers/husbands. what about LL Cool J? Or DMX?

    Sometimes, a wigger is just a wigger. These Houston dudes here have already told you that PW is probably marrying the broad for credibility. Stop confusing ppl.

  • phattycakez

    It takes a strong MAN to deal with a STRONG black woman, nowadays most Black men are too lazy & scared to deal with a black woman because most black women demand that you step up, be responsible and take care of your shit, whereas most of these “other chicks” will put up with that immature “baby boy” syndrome shit because their on some “Mandingo” shit or because Black men are hot shit right now anyway…matter of fact, “it’s cool to be a black man or woman PERIOD nowadays”…..IMO Paul is just a product of his environment he probably grew up around black folks and gained a natural attraction to black women..besides who wouldnt want a sexy, bad black chick with a phatty??? All the white/latino dudes in my hood do :)

  • VICIOUSVELAGIO

    WELL I’M A WOMAN AND I DON’T TEACH MY SON ABOUT THE IMPORTANCE OF MONEY CAUSE GUESS WHAT?…IT AINT’ IMPORTANT.THAT’S WHATS WRONG WITH MOST MEN WHITE,BLACK OR WHATEVER,YOU ALWAYS FEEL LIKE WOMEN ARE ALL ABOUT MONEY. WELL, THAT’S WHERE I DISAGREE.
    YEA YOU NEED MONEY TO PAY BILLS AND HAVE CLOTHES AND TRANSPORTATION WHICH ARE ESSENTIAL IN TODAY’S SOCIETY. ANYWAY MOST OF THESE MEN ARE BETWEEN $32,000-$45,000 WHICH IS CONSIDERED POVERTY(NOW DAYS)…AND A FAMILY CAN’T SURVIVE ON THAT. THAT’S WHY YOU HAVE TWO INCOMES AND THERE ARE ALOT OF WOMEN OUT THERE WHO CONTRIBUTE ALOT MORE THAN THEIR MEN BECAUSE WOMEN ARE GETTING PAID NOW. AND BACK TO “BITCHMADE”. I DON’T LISTEN TO THIS “BITCHMADE” MUSIC THAT MOST OF YALL “REAL NIGGAS” BE BUMPING IN YALL SPEAKERS WHILE 2 PAC,GHETTO BOYS,SLICK RICK,AND ALOT,LOT,LOT,LOT,LOT MORE ARE COLLECTING DUST…YALL SOME DUMMIES AND NEED TO GET BACK TO DA REALNESS OF IT ALL THAT’S WHY YALL THINK THE WAY YALL DO ABOUT WOMEN CAUSE YALL GETTING BRAINWASHED BY ALL THIS GARBAGE!!!!!!!!!!!! HOLL AT YO GIRL

  • dj kilo

    here’s the lowdown(like it or not) when a black person attains economic stability it is more than likely that he will not be with a black female or an overweight female(MOSTLY BLACK) Can you name one rich black man with an ugly fat black woman on his side?…….didnt think so

  • savvy

    wow, i have a problem with the term “bitchmade” b/c it degrades women who have to make it on their own without the benefit of having a male role model for their kids. and also puts the onus of not having that benefit (or detriment, b/c all men in the home aren’t good role models, and that’s real talk – which you seem to believe you spout — but one’s mans’ truth …) on the single woman. when really, it’s the shitty father’s who need the derogatory name …

    anyway, my point is this, there are plently of men out there, raised by women only, who aren’t “bitchmade”. the problem, is that you don’t see them in the news or other media outlets. i’m not going to list men raised by women who have “made it” b/c that doesn’t matter. what matters is this whole dislike/hatred of women that men seem to have.

    women have kids, and raise them the best they can. they should be applauded for that. instead, they are castigated by demeaning names for doing the only thing that they know how to do. and that’s ignorant.

    a good question for you, would be, what do you suggest women do? are you willing to be a GOOD role model for you boys who’s father’s don’t give a fuck? probably not. you seem more comfortable sitting back, wondering whether marrying a black woman makes you a real niggah or not. i say, marry who you want to marry. black, white, whatever. being a good man and father, has nothing to do with your racial preference.

    and uh, you do realize that you sound like a bitchmade niggah, right? LOL!

  • http://dahshyt.blogspot.com Belize (click my name)

    Naw u right,
    but bitchmade dudes can come from anytype of household. Its they way they grew up that dictates that i.e. heart, balls, and how they make decisions.

  • omg

    george bush does not care about black people.

  • Stax On Deck

    Paul Wall Is That Dude. Fuck that racial bs.

  • db kate

    this shit’s mad funnin! i never heard a good reason in my life why race should matter when anybody gettin married or what. ^ “Fuck that racial bs.”!!!

  • BORN IN THE NORTH, RAISED IN THE SOUTH

    Moms raised me, but she ain’t no bitch and she definitely didn’t raise one….

  • http://iferprobates.blogspot.com Wallace Kane

    Incredibly great read! Honestly.