Reality Check

All this year, ever since the New York Times published its story on the sad state of black men here in the US (apparently, we aren’t doing so well), there’s been a lot of discussion about issues affecting black men. There was interesting discussion on whether these issues might be attributed to hip-hop culture, which I touched on here briefly and then expanded on at my own site.

Then there was the Washington Post’s sadly stillborn series of articles called Being a Black Man. Earlier this year they published an op-ed by some angry black woman about how so many black people these days have given up on the idea of marriage, and this past weekend they followed that up with another story about some poor black woman who couldn’t find a brother to settle down with.

One of the key themes you noticed repeated in so many of these articles are popular myths about black men allowed to go mostly unchecked, presumably because the writers of these stories have come to except them as fact. jimi izrael touched on a few in his humorous debunking of the WaPo’s most recent state of black relationships story, and here I’ve gone and debunked several others.

Myth: Black men are too lazy to work.

Truth: Nobody likes to work, but many black men couldn’t find a job if they wanted to due to a) systematic racism, obviously, and b) on overall shift in the structure of the US economy from being based primarily on manufacturing to a lot of shitty service industry jobs which have historically gone to women.

Most of the growth of the economy these days, such as it is, is centered around jobs having to do with shit like folding clothes and rubbing lotion on an old white man’s balls. Of course it’s going to be difficult for a black man to find work in such an economy.

Myth: Black men are horrible fathers.

Truth: Most men are horrible fathers. Having grown up around cracka-ass crackas, I’ve definitely heard my share of horror stories having to do with white people’s fathers. No Boutros. Art Alexakis, anyone? If there’s a difference, it’s that more white men can afford not to raise their kids in shitty areas. Still, I’d hardly consider that some great achievement of white fatherhood.

Myth: Black men are attracted to fat white women

Truth: No one is attracted to any fat woman, regardless of race. Not to suggest that courtship is primarily an economic arrangement (because that might make me look like a sexist), but men of lesser means eventually learn to settle for fat women because that’s all they can afford.

Well, I suppose there is a certain subculture of mentally ill men (mostly white, it’s worth noting), who hang out in chubby chaser bars looking to find morbidly obese women to take home and “antique” for sexual purposes, but that’s a relatively small minority.

Myth: Black men hate black women.

Truth: This goes right along with that last myth. The popular notion goes that black men can’t stand black women’s attitudes, and that’s why you see so many of them walking around with fat white chicks. The truth of the matter is that men in general, regardless of race, don’t like a woman with a fucked up attitude.

Is a fat white woman preferable to a (relatively) skinny black woman with an attitude problem? In some cases, yes.

Myth:
Black men are secretly teh ghey.

Truth: See, this is a tricky one. Because obviously there are quite a few brothers out there on the DL, who are contributing to positively ridonkulous level of AIDS in the black community and especially among black women.

That said, if the question is whether or not black men are more likely to be teh ghey than other races of men, then the answer is obviously no. If anything, an argument could be made that black men are the straightest race of men there is. The problem is that so many black men have teh gheyness foisted upon them due to the racist nature of the criminal justice system here in the US.

  • Phil

    1st

  • Larry Akambe

    and you yourself debunk the:

    “black men have big dicks”-myth

  • LOS

    Dope Post.
    What about we all steal, are dumb, and the dick thing? And chicken. And…well I guess I could go for days.

  • thoreauly77

    bol- what on earth do you know about being black?

  • soopadoopa

    Co-sign on all points, good post but you forgot that fat white girls be giving up the serious bread haha.

  • content

    What about we all steal, are dumb, and the dick thing? And chicken.

    ^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^

    poor people steal

    i know some dumb white muthafuckers

    everybody likes chicken

    and the dick thing has been proven wrong through research(according to my psy. teacher anyway)

  • The DJ Formerly Known as N-CREDIBLE

    We(black men) are the strongest force out here…which is why they constantly try to tear us down…because they know our potential probably better than a lot of blck men themselves know…that is why our manhood is challenged on a daily basis…they dont gives us the job(white ex-con has a better chance of getting a job than a black man who never went to prison – its a fact – look it up)…the jobs they do give to blacks are givin to women(the white man loves our women and is not INTIMIDATED by them)…they refuse to acknowledge us and our accomplishments…and they fear our sexual power(the wang – Ladies man)…i end with 3 words and a fist held high “FIGHT THE POWER”

  • Eastside Bread Maker

    These articles that are being placed in the papers and other publications are just another way to portray black males in a negative way. And the sad thing is that so many people think that everything that they read in the papers or see on the news or Oprah are facts. Truth be told, there are many black men who are doing very well for themselves and are taking care of their families and are not gay. But sadly there are more men that aren’t doing those things, so the ratio makes the situation look extremely bleek.

  • LBDII

    Nice blog.

  • Eastside Bread Maker

    And as for this notion that black men prefer white women over black women, thats bullshit. Men prefer women that they can get along with PEACEFULLY. Who dont mind shutting the fuck up whenever the game is on and who dont need to be the center of attention all the damn time. Who can cook, hold a conversation (when the situation calls for conversing), have manners and can manipulate her head and neck movements like Paris Hilton while incorporating the hand motions of Superhead, and the waist and body movements of heather hunter while taking it missionary style, who also cums like Cytheria!!!

  • 110 street

    Educational post good one.

  • Young A. Simmons

    co sign Thor, Bol your myspace says you are ‘latino / hispanic’

    You like that pale dude from the PJs (remember that show?) who thought he was black.

    Also you place too much importance on weight. Skinny chicks can be butt ugly, but curvy / chubby chicks could have really pretty faces, if i had to choose i’d take a lil bit more weight for a lot more attractiveness.

  • Kitty

    i loved your post.now i just wish some people i know would think like that..

  • the one

    Good post Fish Bol’ Head.

  • tHe tRaNsIeNt

    u a faggit ass nigga bol

    a lyin’ faggit ass nigga

    cus u know yo fat ass love dem slobby roseanne barr lookin’ white bitches with da ring-of-saturn like layer of flab nestlin’ between their crop tops and jeans

    fat white trash sluts dat nobody else want were bred primarily so fat sack of shit degenrate black losers like u can get laid

    and u know dis, mannnnnnnnnn

  • Fernando

    Good post bol.

    You did get one thing wrong though. Black men feast upon fat white women. I live in Portland Oregon where there is a “normal” abundance of black men. I know many “husky” white girls, some of which are ok looking, and they get hollered at by the black dudes at the club about 25x more than white guys. I see normal looking black dudes with fat white bitches ALL THE TIME. Its not like a fucked up guy is just taking what he can get.

  • http://xxlmag JAY

    Ya’ll shut the fuck up bitchin about stupid shit.. LIFE IS WHAT YOU MAKE IT

    GET MONEY BOYZ

  • http://www.myspace.com/dronkmunk dronkmunk

    nicely done, bol.

  • thoreauly77

    “You consider yourself a black blogger?

    Definitely just a blogger.

    C’mon . . .

    Well, you look at the “black blogger” scene, and they are all, you know, more journalistic I guess you could say. And I’m not in that scene, y’know? It’s more people journaling, whereas I try to write about the world around me. But as far as my perspective—yeah, I write as a black guy. So in that sense, you could say I am a black blogger.”

    -from an interview of bol by jimi izrael.

  • tHe tRaNsIeNt

    bol tries to write about “the world around him”

    aka the wood panelled walls of his basement home in his mom house

  • thoreauly77

    co-sign transient.
    “ring of saturn like layer of flab”. bol likes them spare tires.

  • Fernando

    God Damn Dj-Ncred just had to turn this into a god damn panther rally. Alright man…fight the fucking power, we get it. Asalama SHUT THE FUCK UP.

  • thoreauly77

    yeah, i write “as” a black guy. i suppose anyone could write “as” a black guy when their identity is concealed and they have a fake picture posted of themselves.

  • Fernando

    The only flab that Bol fucks are the chubby little smokies that he calls fingers.

    lol @ “world around him”…..40 oz. of 211 & the internet.

  • The DJ Formerly Known as N-CREDIBLE

    Fernando shut your gay mouth

  • tHe tRaNsIeNt

    i bet rey likes fat white trash sluts too because

    a. “it’s all about personality and not looks, guys, and i respect all women”

    b. a chubby mongoloid speedy gonzalez faggit who shops at marshalls like him could do no better than an anna nicole smith circa 2002 lookalike

  • The DJ Formerly Known as N-CREDIBLE

    The first person to get that Jay-z album bootlegged let me know because its only a matter of time before it spreads…just in case you been trapped i the closet(no John Legend)…the album has been officially leaked

  • e

    LMAO @ Bol describing black people.

  • thoreauly77

    http://www.jimiizrael.com/ji/2005/05/05/19.40.52

    check this shit out. there is shit in this interview to fuck with bol for days.

  • Young A. Simmons

    Where you at Bol? This whole week you been sonned, first by 50 and YN shuttin you down, now it transpires you a yellow skinned chronic masturbater.

    I was only joking bout you and teens in your minivan, but after the jerking to 15 yr olds on youtube statement…

  • Fernando

    bol is a fat white woman

  • tHe tRaNsIeNt

    let’s be honest hea..dat pic prolly is fake and in reality bol is actually an obese bald white 36 year old with da complexion of one of da zombies in dawn of the dead who resembles terror from dat 70s flick the wanderers

  • Fernando

    If Rey is as “mexi / puerto rican” as you guys make him sound, than he probably has a gene in his genetic make-up that compels him to go after any white bitch that weighs over 2 bills.

    latinos + honda del sols on 13″ spinners + white bitches = penut butter & jelly

  • e

    Bol probably sits around watching Pee Wee’s Play House in his mom’s basement. Bol probably looks like Drew Carey.
    (no lloyd banks gay porn video)

  • john cochran

    I agree with this nigga for once. I thought he was gonna say some stupid shit. good job.

  • thoreauly77

    nah, bol is probably a white frat boy.

    busch light, check
    hates mexicans and jooos, check
    likes the gin blossoms, check
    wears birkenstocks, um i dont know but probably, check
    was a wrestler, check
    hates hiphop, check

    pretty compelling case, no?

  • Fernando

    I’ve never heard the teh ghey myth. I saw some bullshit on a daytime talk show where they were interviewing some black dudes who were cheating on their wives with men. Thats all I have ever heard of it. Maybe its the “prison” thing. Once they get out, hairy booty is all they want (no bols mom)

  • sojazzy

    stop sayin teh ghey you fuckin nerd

  • The DJ Formerly Known as N-CREDIBLE

    Fernando i thought i told you to shut your gay mouth

  • e

    If Rey is as “mexi / puerto rican” as you guys make him sound
    ^^^^^
    Rey looks like your sterotypical latino (no percy miller)

  • The DJ Formerly Known as N-CREDIBLE

    Teh Ghey is gay in itself…it seems like a word you cant help but say in a gay manner

  • Fernando

    not only does Bol LIKE the Gin Blossoms, didnt he mention that he tried to jack off to one of their videos lately??

    Bol is a birckenstock wearin, patchulie oil smellin, cheap beer drinkin, nag champa burnin, bummin off his mom, oily fat piece of shit.
    Sounds like a cracka to me

  • SUPERMAN

    GOTTA HAND IT TO YOU BOL, THIS POST WAS ON POINT. THIS SHIT REALLY IS THE TRUTH. I TRY TO EXPLAIN TO PEOPLE THE REASON WHY BLACK MEN ARE HOLLERIN MORE AND MORE AT THE WHITE GIRLS IS BECAUSE BLACK GIRLS GOT THE FUCKIN BIGGEST MOUTHS ON THE PLANET. LIKE GODDAMN BITCH SHUT THE FUCK UP. BUT IF YOU TELL HER THAT SHE WONT SHUT UP, SHE’LL GET EVEN LOUDER. NOW A WHITE GIRL KNOWS HER PLACE IN THE RELATIONSHIP. UNLIKE THE BLACK GIRLS, WHITE GIRLS SHUT THE FUCK UP. AND A BITCH WHO SHUTS THE FUCK UP IS GOOD BY ANY MEANS!

  • Fernando

    Exactly the point you dumb fucks. If you say “teh ghey” three times, Dj-Ncred will appear out of nowhere just like Candyman.

  • SUPERMAN

    CONTENT THATS A GOOD POINT. I HEARD BLACKS DONT HAVE THE BIGGEST DICKS. ITS WHITE AND LATINOS. CAN SOMEONE PLEASE EXLPAIN THAT SHIT TO ME?

  • Fernando

    Unles you get one of those super “hood” white bitches, like the Mad TV skit. Those bitches are even worse because they have to play the part to seem ghetto.

  • Fernando

    Dj-Ncred could probably explain it in great detail for you Superman.

  • Young A. Simmons

    No excuse for gayness, humping dudes in jail, that’s some sick shit.

    However: gayness >>> incest. (Bol and his mom greatly implied)

  • Fernando

    Which is worse…..incest or beastiality???

  • Fernando

    I guess with Bol & his mom, its a little bit of both, since I bet that that bitch looks like a Himilayan Mountain Yak

  • http://rodneydugue.blogspot.com RD

    BC, you’ll like this http://dallaspenn.com/weblog/?p=1165

    RD

  • Fernando

    Yak Yak Yak

  • tsmith7791

    Hey what happened to that 50 cent article? Looks like a bitch move man.

  • e

    Which is worse…..incest or beastiality???

    Necrophillia

  • Fernando

    and then….silence

  • Fernando

    So it goes

    Gheyness>>>incest>>>beasties>>>necropheliacs

  • Fernando

    friday……& IM OUT

  • lmao

    im blacker than u

  • frankwhite45

    Black people hate on another nigga doin good!!!! myspace.com/ninohnewjack myspace.com/ninohnewjack

  • http://aramhiphopetc.blogspot.com/ I Fux

    Yo I dont want to say too much but I used to watch this spanish novela with my ex (nhjic) and this broad named Jery Sandoval caught my eye like whoa… I have been crushing on her ever since….. Click on my name and I promise no disappointment on everything

  • E.Williams

    You’re Black?

  • e

    ^^^^^^
    No Homo

  • Fernando

    Thank you IFUX…You did not dissapoint. Somebody needs to get her in a porno QUICKLY. Or at least on skinamax

  • allnice

    Bol good post sonny. I’m glad you set the record straight about the state of black dudes in the US. Alot of people don’t understand the true story, but they are so fascinated by black dudes that they believe any myth they hear. Cats also lie about black dudes all the time because they are jealous, but how can they be jealous of jigs that ain’t got shit? Shit is crazy man…..

  • G Off

    I second that Fernando… by the way, you might be spending too much time at the Copper Penny- you should hit up Aura or Bettie Ford’s for less fat girls

  • http://www.myspace.com/angelsometimes Cthulhu

    Bol is all about irony, I wouldn’t be surprised if he’s a black guy doing white shit just for the sake of it.

  • http://www.allhiphop.com,Version=1,Version=1 Rey

    I got nothing today. Sorry guys. UNO!

  • Fernando

    ha ha….another Portlander. Im engaged, so I have no interest in pale buffalo. Ironically, Betty Ford probably has the most amount of coke heads in the city. Fuck copper penny, smells like hiv

  • Fernando

    Seawicklies = toughest drinks in the city.

  • Dee

    “We(black men) are the strongest force out here…which is why they constantly try to tear us down…”

    You tear each other down. You claim to be the strongest force, yet the next sentence in your post talks about how “they” don’t give you the jobs. Kinda makes your points look weaker than a handicap kid. And most of the things this fat nigga (cracka?) Bol “debunked”? WTF? Your about as black as Lionel Richie. I take what the fuck you say with a grain of salt.

  • Dee

    “Bol is all about irony, I wouldn’t be surprised if he’s a black guy doing white shit just for the sake of it.”

    I wouldn’t be surprised if he’s a WHITE guy doing BLACK shit just for the sake of it. Oh yeah, you one ugly bitch too CHTLU…w/e.

  • Spark

    Im Black yall Im Black yall, im blackidy black yall

  • Joopset

    “Bol is all about irony, I wouldn’t be surprised if he’s a black guy doing white shit just for the sake of it.”

    I wouldn’t be surprised if he’s a WHITE guy doing BLACK shit just for the sake of it. Oh yeah, you one ugly bitch too CHTLU…w/e.

  • Prince Of The South

    I don’t care what color you are, if you look good then I’ll go with you, but I agree with you about big women. NY Times on some slick racist stuff, because it’s hard for us to find jobs, when the employer already has his mind made up about you. If your name sounds black you don’t get the job. If you make it past the phone interview, they find out you’re not white and they either give you the job because they need a minority worker or they don’t. That’s why we as a community need to leave the drinks and drugs alone and get our minds right. We destroying ourselves, when we could be out there on the grind opening up black owned companies and lift our communities up.

  • Fernando

    co-sign with Prince. The inherant “silent” institutional racism within Employee hiring process’ inst going away anytime soon. It does no good to bitch & whine about it, or talk about phony idealistic revolutionary stuff like Dj-Ncred. Opening companies, retraining, education, innovation, & support of local businesses is the only way to make it this day & age. Money talks louder than skin color. Save your paper, get your money.

  • http://www.myspace.com/kracktheking KR

    Cant front on this post, it was cool.

    U still shook doe…

  • http://xxlmag.com D.E.

    yo bol this the best and most truthful blog u wrote 4real thank you for stating the facts! so white people who write in there newspapers and magazines really know whats up with black men. keep being honest cause aint to many honest folks left..

  • b-dub

    REAL TALK. I’M FEELING THIS SHIT
    GOOD MONEY

    BISHIP BOSS IS THE FUTURE
    TELL A FRIEND TO TELL FRIEND
    http://www.myspace.com/myspacecombishipboss

  • kevin

    great post bol…

    one love

  • G Off

    I hear you Fernando and you are definitely right about BF (although Pala’s takes the cokehead cake). What the hell is a seawicklies???

  • amedawg00

    Vintage Bol..This post is an instant classic. I am black, however, and I prefer hot white chicks over hot black chicks, but will not discriminate between the two on normal occasions. The fat white chick stereotype, if anything, often trigger an abundance of them hitting on me, thinking that I am “naturally” disposed to their liking. Give me a fucking break. I would wank my shit to death before settling for some broke tub of lard white chick. Keep spitting that fiyah Bol, even though I firmly believe that your post on women in general is derived from observation and not actual relationships because you obviously are still a virgin!

  • http://myspace.com/legacyhiphop Belize

    good post

  • Dat Nigga Tago

    For THE FIRST TIME I HEAR U SAYIN SOME SHIT INSTEAD OF HATIN. PROPZ

  • icon (Trillbert Arenas)

    Which Bol article got delted? I missed the post, obviously….details, please…

  • icon (Trillbert Arenas)

    deleted, not delted

  • Babyboy

    at least we have DA DICK

  • Fernando

    G off-

    Seawicklies is a grimey little bar on 50th & hawthorne. Not a place for a date, but if you wanna start your night off right without killin you wallet, make it happen. They serve ridiculously strong drinks

  • SUPERMAN

    SPARK WTF WAS THAT?

  • legendary

    I would say that 45% of problems is racism
    and 55 % is black people themselves. I am
    a black canadian and I see how black peeps
    turn good situations they have into bad ones.
    For example, canadians now have gangs and shit.
    Canada is one of the best country to be black
    there is way less racism than in the states.
    But cats are now fucking up and doin some
    broaday shootouts. White peeps mos def
    think we are fucked up for real.
    Over here, school is afordable, so
    black kids have no excuses do have at least
    the minimum education level. One of the problem
    with black peeps is the love of fast money
    than hard earned money. Every race has this kind
    of individual, but it seems that black folks
    have more in their ranks. I’ll give ya a good
    examples. Have you ever heard of drug problems
    in black Africa? No because peeps are hungry
    and got otheir shit to do. A drug dealer will go broke in
    Africa. For women, I’ve been with white and black and white are
    quiter than blacks. Regarding the blame on
    hip hop, that’s some bulshit, 95 % of
    actions are on the individual. Maybe he must make
    that deal to get that money for his iced out watch.
    I for example, looks like shady individual
    bitches always think that I sell dope and shit cause
    If ya see me in the street in timbos and avirex jacket and baggy
    pants, you will never guess what I do on my 9-5 job
    an engineer at Motorola. I listened to gangsta shit
    and not so positive rap and I have a degree in Electrical
    engineer. So don’t tell me that hip hop has effect.

  • Doc Flav

    Best XXL blog I ever read from you Bol, With none of those coon and jigaboo ref., great insight and perspective. PROPS OVER HERE!

  • http://www.MonicaMingo.com CreoleInDC

    Interesting.

  • Tiz The Trick

    hey dee….do you have a hot pussy??

  • Tiz The Trick

    oops….i thought dee was a bitch

  • http://www.xxlmag.com Mav

    Bottom line is I don’t down talk on no man for being with a woman. Respect it! People like difference things. I don’t care about the color as long as it ain’t no man. I read other comments nobody wants to give us props. Nobody gets treated as bad as we have been so fuck everbody talking shit. Every race wants to be like us. The same people who make something from nothing. And make it the lates trend. Come from poverty with so much game. That these bitches from other races can’t deny they self the oppurtunity to fuck with it. Fuck That face the music we got style all our own. Major swagg that coming from our ansectors whether we know about the past our not it just show up. All women on the planted love us don’t be fool by the bullshit. We remain still the forbitten fruit! So watch what you say you don’t know your woman’s true fantasy! So keep hatin bitches we will still do our thing!

  • FERNANDO

    Stop it you homophobic losers. Why do you hate gay people so much? I am proud to be a gay American. All you losers need to be quiet and go back to living in your mom’s basement jerk offs. Check out deep dick collective. I love them their proud to be hip homos. I gotta get back to my boyfriend. He needs some lovin aka blowjob buttsecks. If you boys want some lovin too contact me in Oregon. I’ll come back here to post since I don’t really have a job. SAY IT LOUD I AM A GAY MAN AND PROUD!!!!!

  • Spark

    Clark Kent that was CB4 movie quote!-i waz drinkin-

  • SMARTASS

    Eastside breadmaker & Superman are both on point. [Right on statements]Prince hit the nail on the head, leave the booze & drugs alone. And oh yeah, Bol actually did something good here.

  • Victor “Doc-V” Trammell

    Without sounding too preach I’m going to disect this 4th grade minded White dominated society. First off let’s get on white mothafuckas for a minute. They HATE to exploit some of the fucked up shit they do as a people. Look at that Amish school shooting and the Columbine type shit going on today. They are the only people in this nation who do shit like that. I ain’t heard shit about no black man doing no sick shit like that. Also look at all the faggots that’s involved with these politics which is dominated by them. Foley ain’t only dookie chaser in the U.S government! White folks spoil their kids lazy to me. They ain’t have to ever do shit, blacks built this country with their blood sweat and tears! And we did it for free! I am a 24 year old rapper/inner city school tutor/black student union president/songwriter. I come from the ghetto and poverty. I am making a difference at my young age to help my community with the numerous things I conduct business in. I ain’t got no reason to complain about what any other race of mothafuckas has done for me cause I’m doing what I’m supposed to do for my people. I love black women,especially the darker ones who always gettin overlooked by Holllywood. See, a strong man can deal with a strong woman not some siditty bitch who’ll do whatever you say. Some of ya’ll fools who clain to be brothas on here sound like cop-outs who take whatever label Jim Crow will give like it’s an omen. I don’t feel inferior to a mothafucka on the face of this earth, cause if a bullet strikes your head YOU DEAD! Therefore,ain’t nobody supposed to be in the business of antaganizing nobody! I respect a person who respects me, but I ain’t conforming to a soul. I got in hell of trouble as a juvenile, but I ain’t complaing about a godamn thing this racist as society has hurled at me. To ya’ll who think you understand us, disect your own godamned culture. Find out what’s wrong with YOUR culture, and do something for your people to change it. I can say some shit about black, white, brown, yellow and red culture that I don’t like cause ain’t a soul perfect! I hate dumb ass, unaware, unreceptive, narrow-minded people that are in any ethnic group. Who’s got something to say now? That even goes to the creators of this faggot ass blog.

  • http://way2truyahoo.com Victor “Doc-V” Trammell

    Without sounding too preach I’m going to disect this 4th grade minded White dominated society. First off let’s get on white mothafuckas for a minute. They HATE to exploit some of the fucked up shit they do as a people. Look at that Amish school shooting and the Columbine type shit going on today. They are the only people in this nation who do shit like that. I ain’t heard shit about no black man doing no sick shit like that. Also look at all the faggots that’s involved with these politics which is dominated by them. Foley ain’t only dookie chaser in the U.S government! White folks spoil their kids lazy to me. They ain’t have to ever do shit, blacks built this country with their blood sweat and tears! And we did it for free! I am a 24 year old rapper/inner city school tutor/black student union president/songwriter. I come from the ghetto and poverty. I am making a difference at my young age to help my community with the numerous things I conduct business in. I ain’t got no reason to complain about what any other race of mothafuckas has done for me cause I’m doing what I’m supposed to do for my people. I love black women,especially the darker ones who always gettin overlooked by Holllywood. See, a strong man can deal with a strong woman not some siditty bitch who’ll do whatever you say. Some of ya’ll fools who clain to be brothas on here sound like cop-outs who take whatever label Jim Crow will give like it’s an omen. I don’t feel inferior to a mothafucka on the face of this earth, cause if a bullet strikes your head YOU DEAD! Therefore,ain’t nobody supposed to be in the business of antaganizing nobody! I respect a person who respects me, but I ain’t conforming to a soul. I got in hell of trouble as a juvenile, but I ain’t complaing about a godamn thing this racist as society has hurled at me. To ya’ll who think you understand us, disect your own godamned culture. Find out what’s wrong with YOUR culture, and do something for your people to change it. I can say some shit about black, white, brown, yellow and red culture that I don’t like cause ain’t a soul perfect! I hate dumb ass, unaware, unreceptive, narrow-minded people that are in any ethnic group. Who’s got something to say now? That even goes to the dumb asses at the NY Times.

  • http://way2truyahoo.com Victor “Doc-V” Trammell

    Fuck all ya’ll!

  • bob

    black men (such as myself) love sistas, we just hate bitches. Theres a diference.

  • Combat Jack

    good shiite bol. one of your best!!!!

  • Jersey

    White men prefer their women to look like they are hooked on meth/heroin, with a flat ass, bleached-blonde hair and silicon-filled tits.

  • black man

    we do have big dicks.

  • bullshit

    this is bullshit. I’m cuban and I actually have nothing but my three best friends are black and these fuckers will not go and try to get a job much like all the other black men i know. and when they do get a job they don’t do shit and gloat about it “man, i don’t do shit at work, i just be getting at these bitches that come in” then a week later they get fired. Also, you go to a fucken job interview wearing the new jordan’s with some baggy ass jeans, a jersey, a wave cap and a hat…WTF???and you expect to get a fucken job. Also, I haven’t met a black guy that don’t smoke weed everyday and drink every chance they get…don’t give me that work force and economy bullshit. also, black guys do like fat women (not just white fat women). Oh yea, who the fuck don’t like chicked and watermelon….if you don’t then something is wrong with you son!

  • Holla Back

    this is the stupidest blog ever, because you use the most incorrect reasons as to your assumptions. Black men dont work because there are more nursing jobs and folding clothes jobs?? what fucking country do you live in dog?? the reason why alot of black men dont get jobs is because they dont want to. period. now that mainly concerns those in the inner cities. I had a girlfriend who lived in the hood and i use to hang at her building, AFTER GETTING HOME FROM WORK, and black dudes would have fold up chairs on the sidewalk just chillin, drinkin. this was all over the hood. Dont try to make the black man problem societies problems or on the man you fuckin ignorant fuck. Most black men dont get jobs in the hood because they dont want to, and thats the bottom line.

  • Holla Back

    ohh also, if people came to the hood with job opportunities for the young black men they still woudnt work because in the hood its more important to be down for your hood and street rather than be somebody. its easy to be a nobody and most black men from the hood are content with that. not all of them, but most of them. its not societies problem, its a culture issue, black culture issue, and by bein in the hood i seen that shit first hand. Dudes are content to stand on the street all day and do nothin. i mean literally do nothin but sit in the parkin lot but then blame the man when they get arrested for selling crack cocaine to an undercover agent. Its always somebody elses fault with black america and until you guys realize that the inner city youth need somethin to strive for, yall’s culture will always be looked down upon.

  • jon-jon 23

    We (black men) have been discriminated against and done wrong for so long that I think a lot of us are brainwashed into thinking we have no worth. Remember we were brought here as slaves and looked at as animals. You see a lot of brothers reciprocating this on a daily basis when we settle for second class instead of striving to realize our full potential. All of this starts at home with good parents. If your mother is an uneducated, untrained, 15 year old welfare recipient what can she teach you? How much self esteem will you have? On the black woman subject: It’s usually the dumb welfare black girls with the illegitimate kids that have the worst attitudes. They start the bitchin’ and neck rollin’….As far as black men liking fat white girls; that’s a crock of shit. If you got your shit together with money and stability you will get the best women (black or white). You never see rich niggas with fat white trailer trash.

  • Sam

    Damn! This is the best piece you’ve ever written. Big up to you. I hope you continue writing things like this, that make sense.

  • blackqueen91

    Everything you said I agree with completely. Black men, and black people in general, have been given a level of expectation that is so low. That’s why there are so many crappy schools in the ghetto;(White) people don’t think we can do any better than the hood, and we don’t reach for anything further than what they give they just put it on “well, they’re just being niggers.” But here is where I think we should rise up, but if you have nothing to rise to then there’s someone else to blame. There’s myths and facts about every race, the problem comes in only when we can’t distinguish between the two.

  • alleyeCNtower

    I’m starting to truly like your writing, Bol. And more importantly, I’m starting to really respect your perspective. Please stick to the thoughtful culture pieces, and stay far, far away from the chidish character sniping.

    This shit is stuff people need to read. We can find hate anywhere. Thanks for this.

    peace

  • Leesnomo

    This article was enlightning. But I have to comment on the brothers with the big fat white chicks. That is just NASTY!!!! how could you walk around in public and cohabitate with a big fat sloppy looking women just because it’s convience. Where is your dignity? It just goes to show that brothers are going DOWWWWNNNN!!!!!!

  • A N Other

    I have seen DOZENS of normal sized black men with fat white women. It’s not a myth …. it’s the truth.

    :-(

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