I don't know how many of y'all have kids or want them one day. But would you ever punish a teenage girl for being boy crazy and having a social life? Well just today I got grounded around christmas time. My step dad is getting mad at me because this guy I really like has been calling me and stuff. He hates me going to my best friend's house (who's a guy) that I've been down with for 6 years because he's thinking that we're fucking or something (when all we do is talk, play games, and smoke), and he said I'm hanging out with too many friends and I'm never really home anymore. So now I'm grounded where I'm forced to be home.

I don't know about y'all but if I have a teenage boy or girl, and they're rarely ever home I wouldn't be mad. As long as I know where they're at and that they're still doing good with their academic life I don't see the problem. But does it really make sense to you guys.

Back then...I never had a punishment...I just got my ass kicked...which is one of the reason I don't believe in Santa Claus anymore back then....

Yeah I used to get whooped with switches, belts, electric cords, and wooden spoons but it all stopped and the punishments came in.

Considering your age, and that you admitted to smoking pot and drinking..I wouldnt let yo fast ass go anywhere lol

Um I don't drink. I hate drinks and beer is NASTY! Pot is not bad at all. And my step dad knows I do that cuz he does that, my best friend does it, majority of the kids at my school do it, and my best friend's dad does it. My step dad just laughs at me when I'm high and tells me not to do it during school or before school. You act like you never heard a kid smoking pot. I'm sure you did it (probably still do it). And plus I'm 14. I NEED to be around friends and I NEED to have a social life. Also my parents said they just don't understand why I hang out with guys all the time and not other girls. They should know by now that I HATE my own gender so if I don't have to be around them I won't.

Damn you took the words right out of my mouth!!

I think you need you ass beat real talk! And your parents do also!

I cannot believe sane people would let there 14 year daughter smoke weed! Wtf it might not be bad for you, but its illegal. And if you get caught then your parents and you will be in trouble. I could see if you were doing it without your parents knowing, but they know and they are incouraging it! WTF? You dont need to be smoking b/c thats not what a lady does! lol that it such a turn off for some guys! and ur lips are going to be purple and ugly! Why do you always hang around guys lol you need to invest in some girlfriends lol b/c thats not going to last for long. you cant tell a nigga everything! I really dont blame your dad for puting u on lock down! lol b/c its getting out of control. You might not be doing anything with these guys,but guys can say anything and your REP will be fucked for life!

The guys I hang with are the same guys I grew up with. My best friend is a guy and he said he'll kill anybody over me. He wanted to beat up my boyfriend after my boyfriend started acting controlling. My other guy friend called up the guy and told him to stay away from me or else. Also I do have girlfriends. I go shopping with them and shit but I don't trust those bitches. I remember I had a rumor about my fucking all these guys and who started it? A stupid ass bitch. Cuz that's all females are at times (not all of them but most of em). They say shit about you if they're jealous. They start rumors about you cuz they like drama. They always wanna fight you to prove something. They steal your boo so they can prove something. Whatever. Guys are simple. They're not complicated. And they're straight forward. And I smoke weed with my guy friends a lot and they still talk about how pretty I am. Almost all my girlfriends smoke weed as well. I'm friends with one of the prettiest girls in school and she smokes. I know hella dudes that would want their girlfriend to smoke. I know this because the dudes I chill with say they want to lay back with their girl and smoke instead of her lecturing them about it. I don't know what type of dudes you chill with.

P.S. I've been whooped so much and beaten as a kid, whoopings don't bother me anymore. I wish I did get my ass whooped instead of being on lockdown. I can get over an electric cord or a stupid weak belt. And my parents don't encourage me to do it. They say I should stop but my step dad doesn't want me to think weed is a bad thing. It's also the only way they'll get me to eat something.

lol

fizzles is on sum teenage problem


u dont like ur gender, right

den u must be wantin to be a dude, n i guess ur boy friend like dudes since he likes u

Actually I'm very girly. I wear make up, earrings, dress in tight jeans, and I ALWAYS have my cell and handbag. If I grew up and I was a dude, I would go get a gun, and shoot my brains. The only reason I hate my gender is because they spread rumors and they love drama. And I don't have a boyfriend. I dumped him cuz he was too controlling. I don't dress like a dude and I'm very girly. I just love being with guys. They don't sit around plotting to ruin people's lives.

SMH lol! your wondering what kind of guys i hang around! guys who respect me. that little smoking thing might work now while your in 9th grade. but when you get older trust me you will get no good man! only thing you will be getting is low lifes...

So you are saying you smoke b/c everybody does it. Lol just b/c a pretty girl does it you do it. lol fiz LIFE is not a popularity contest babe! you have to do what you want fuck that other girl if she smokes let her. Let me ask you something if the pretty girl goes and jumps off a building are you going to do it to? B/c thats basically what you are saying! Im sorry but i dont hang around girls who smoke. Nor can i stand a guy who smokes. I can't stand the smell, and i wouldn't dare bring him to meet my parents smelling like smoke cigs or weed! I can't kiss anybody who smokes ewww that is so nasty. I know every guy has smoked but thats some shit you try like in the 9th grade(for a guy) but when ur like 18 and older thats stupid!

But i know im wasting my time. B/c ur not listenin to me, b/c ur parents think its alright, and a child always believes their parents!

Actually I was smoking before I met the bitch and I do it because it's the only way I can be calm cuz I'm a type of girl that's always getting into a fight because bitches are stupid. So when I smoke I'm mellow and everything is blocked out. And my guy friends have respect for ME. I don't care how they treat some other hoe. The guys I hang with wanted to beat up my ex because he was acting too controlling. He was telling me what to do, who to look at, who not to talk too. And when I told my boys they were ready to fight him. And they never call me out of my name. They let me chill with them, play games with them, smoke with them, and they tell me what type of guys that are right for me and which ones are wrong. And they support me in the choices I make. And I don't see how weed is stupid. I know a lot of kids that smoke weed and they're the sweetest people I ever met. Just like I know a guy who was forced to drop out of high school in start working and he's only 16 but he's a smart ass muthafucka. So to say you won't hang around someone cuz they smoke is dumb. It mainly mains you want hang out with most of the people in America alone. Especially in Seattle. Seattle alone it's like 9 out of 10 of the population that smokes weed. So you wouldn't talk to most of the people in my city. Plus I never worry about a guy. Everytime I dump one there's another. I'm 14. I'm not looking for a man now. Now just looking for right now.

P.S. My mom thinks me smoking is bad and so does my step dad just like they want me to wait for marriage to have sex but they know it ain't gonna happen. So they'll try but I'm not around them 24/7

Can some moderator please stop this thread from continuing..... this bullshit has gone on for long enough.....okay u smoke ...u got grounded and thats the end...... stop complaining and find another route to speak to that fool ...... if he dont want u speaking to him on the phone go about it another way...what seems like ur gonna dis obey him anyways.... jus please shut the fuck up!

wtf??..lol..youre parents truly need to take away the computer..you show that you will have mental issues once you become "an adult''