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eye_cue
i decided to start a thread on what us guys and girls dont understand about the opposite sex (questions dont have to be answered)..which ever sex has the most questions wins..

my questions

what the hell is it with those quick weaves..some look nice..some go wayyyy overboard with it..lately i been seein girls lookin like chickens..litterally..wonder why niggaz call some of yall chickenheads..CHECK THE DU!

ThizzinN530
why do beezys try to check mutha fuckas like there runnin things.....not sayin IM runnin things but bitch you try to check me like your my mom and "slapped her so hard bitch almost lost her feet"


and i dont think this is just white chicks...never dated out of my race though ph34r.gif ...........not sayin i wouldnt just never really had the chance...


i got hellaaaaaaaaaaa man im hatin beezys rite about now..cause to much drama...im livin a life like a soap opera rite now and thats real talk mellow.gif
eye_cue
QUOTE
why do beezys try to check mutha fuckas like there runnin things.....not sayin IM runnin things but bitch you try to check me like your my mom and "slapped her so hard bitch almost lost her feet"


cosign cosiiiiiiiiiiign.....what the fuck is up with that shit yo..
xDyMeOnDx
for the men:
Why is it that when we turn you down politely you go from "damn, ma you fina as hell" to "fuckin' hoe, you think you all that, bitch you aint shit"? I'm pretty sure it's an inmaturaty thing, damn it bugs me...
oh, and why is it every time a female gets raped y'all wanna say she lyin' when ya probably know she's not? I mean, is it just out of utter hate for women or is that you really think that rape is such a rare thing that it NEVER happens and she MUST be lying?

to answer y'all's questions...
Some women check men cuz 1, they are sick of being the "weak" female, and they probably like power/control and despise being dominated... Also, it depends on the circumstance but if you're with a man and he does something fukked up is it so wrong to let him know your not cool with that? Women have tempers too, we check y'all probably for the same reasons y'all check us...

>>what the hell is it with those quick weaves?<<

haha I don't know... there are some fucked up weaves out there... it's like do you really, honestly think that shit look good???
Nigerianprincess
EWWWWWW! Quick Weaves are soooo UGLY!!! LOL

SO U SLAPED A GIRL JUST B/C SHE ASK U A FUCKIN QUESTION ARE U SERIOUS?
would u slap ur mother????? mad.gif

so if u ask her a question like u were her father she has the right to slap u back!!!


RIGHT? blink.gif
Cuffs2g
QUOTE (xDyMeOnDx @ Aug 23 2005, 01:07 AM)
for the men:
Why is it that when we turn you down politely you go from "damn, ma you fina as hell" to "fuckin' hoe, you think you all that, bitch you aint shit"? I'm pretty sure it's an inmaturaty thing, damn it bugs me...
oh, and why is it every time a female gets raped y'all wanna say she lyin' when ya probably know she's not? I mean, is it just out of utter hate for women or is that you really think that rape is such a rare thing that it NEVER happens and she MUST be lying?

to answer y'all's questions...
Some women check men cuz 1, they are sick of being the "weak" female, and they probably like power/control and despise being dominated... Also, it depends on the circumstance but if you're with a man and he does something fukked up is it so wrong to let him know your not cool with that? Women have tempers too, we check y'all probably for the same reasons y'all check us...

>>what the hell is it with those quick weaves?<<

haha I don't know... there are some fucked up weaves out there... it's like do you really, honestly think that shit look good???

The reason guys act so negatively when dere turned down is cuz women make that reaction come out for example...

If a man says dey won't date a girl because of looks every one in here will say he's shallow and that's not a good reason, looks arent erything etc

But then when that same man talks to woman who he's ready to take out show a good time etc he gets dissed and that's infuriating especially to the nice guys.

lucklily for me I've always been an arrogant asshole and for some reason that turns women. on cool.gif
Nigerianprincess
the reason why girls turn guys down is b/c niggas dont know how to come at u!!!! mad.gif
Crk1019
QUOTE (Nigerianprincess @ Aug 23 2005, 06:46 PM)
the reason why girls turn guys down is b/c niggas dont know how to come at u!!!! mad.gif

how we supposed to come at yall then??
MIMI_05
QUOTE (eye_cue @ Aug 23 2005, 12:03 AM)

what the hell is it with those quick weaves..some look nice..some go wayyyy overboard with it..lately i been seein girls lookin like chickens..litterally..wonder why niggaz call some of yall chickenheads..CHECK THE DU!

laugh.gif i cant answer, ive never had a weave before...lol

@ thizzin..i check these dudes because the first time u let them walk over they gonna think they can do it all the can run over u or talk u any kind of way...this is the same way with dudes checkin females. U get out of line, i snap on u, then we cool cool.gif buit i usually dont do that un less im provoked sleep.gif

QUESTION!!

why do guys always front around there friends when your girlfriend is around?and y dont u check your friends after your girlfriend has told u that they have tried to talk to her on the side?
LOSTGYRL..WYNDBLEW
How come when we ladies "sleep" or "hang" with a guy.. and he knows you're a good woman or the coochie is the best, and how do we know.. just look at him. you can always tell by the man's reaction during sex. why is it that they feel they "own" us, but don't want to say he's our man, because what young guy wants to be "tied" down, ( not saying you fucking, salley, dana, maria) just "scared" of change. but anywoo.. back to my question.. why act like my man, talk like my man, eat my food like my man, (just examples).. and for you "crazy wacko.gif wacko.gif guys" why lay down "rules and regulations"??

hello.. anyone..
MIMI_05
QUOTE (Crk1019 @ Aug 23 2005, 06:48 PM)
how we supposed to come at yall then??

like u got some sense! i dont wanna hear u yellin out the car " hey shawty" or "come here girl" or " u thick as hell" that shit is so immature! can i atleast get a "how u doing"?... sleep.gif
Nigerianprincess
First of all dont touch me on my ass or my damn waist!!! dont put ur hot ass breath in my ear. and just talk to me like im a lady and not ur damn nigga!!!! wink.gif
Setsotama
QUOTE (MIMI_05 @ Aug 23 2005, 06:54 PM)
why do guys always front around there friends when your girlfriend is around?and y dont u check your friends after your girlfriend has told u that they have tried to talk to her on the side?

I dont do that,


but niggas only do that shit for braggin rights


and niggas do that cuz they think their friend is trying to take you from them, Jealousy is all it is





Why do alot of women continuously tell guys what to eat and stuff like everyday? and what to buy for them and then change their mind when guys do it right?
MIMI_05
QUOTE (Nigerianprincess @ Aug 23 2005, 06:57 PM)
First of all dont touch me on my ass or my damn waist!!! dont put ur hot ass breath in my ear. and just talk to me like im a lady and not ur damn nigga!!!! wink.gif

cosign..dont put ya hands on me mad.gif
Nigerianprincess
QUOTE (MIMI_05 @ Aug 23 2005, 06:57 PM)

like u got some sense! i dont wanna hear u yellin out the car " hey shawty" or "come here girl" or " u thick as hell" that shit is so immature! can i atleast get a "how u doing"?... sleep.gif

Co-sign Mimi
MIMI_05
QUOTE (Setsotama @ Aug 23 2005, 06:58 PM)
Why do alot of women continuously tell guys what to eat and stuff like everyday? and what to buy for them and then change their mind when guys do it right?

i dont do any of that.. unsure.gif
Setsotama
that happened to me, that shit is annoying




and I approach women with respect, the things I say is....


"what's up, how ya doing?"

or

"hey, hows it goin' got a time to talk?"


just regular shit...
MIMI_05
QUOTE (Setsotama @ Aug 23 2005, 07:04 PM)

"what's up, how ya doing?"

or

"hey, hows it goin' got a time to talk?"


just regular shit...

yeah thats cool..its all about how u approach us wink.gif
Setsotama
I usually just be me, a cool headed, open-minded, kind hearted person,


but lemme ask this





When I do approach women with respect, half of them clown me, and shit, some actually likes me for being that way, whats up with that?
MIMI_05
QUOTE (Setsotama @ Aug 23 2005, 07:10 PM)
When I do approach women with respect, half of them clown me, and shit, some actually likes me for being that way, whats up with that?

if they clown u, then they immature, and u dont need to be bothered with them anyway..but i dont know some females are different
Nigerianprincess
Some girls like for niggas to talk to their ass any kind of way!!!! Some dont!!!! every girl is different! Every girl likes something different
BABYCORN
Because theres different type of woman Some are hood rats those are the ones that want you to call them bitches and ask to fukk Some are undercover ho's those are the ones that front like they dont do shit or want more out of life then allow you to talk to them like they are a piece of shit or clown you when you have a certain level of respect then there are the classy ladies those are the type that take no shit especially disrespect at any level those are the ladies with self esteem and a good head on their shoulders!!
MIMI_05
QUOTE (BABYCORN @ Aug 23 2005, 07:15 PM)
Because theres different type of woman Some are hood rats those are the ones that want you to call them bitches and ask to fukk Some are undercover ho's those are the ones that front like they dont do shit or want more out of life then allow you to talk to them like they are a piece of shit or clown you when you have a certain level of respect then there are the classy ladies those are the type that take no shit especially disrespect at any level those are the ladies with self esteem and a good head on their shoulders!!

cosign
Nigerianprincess
QUOTE (BABYCORN @ Aug 23 2005, 07:15 PM)
Because theres different type of woman Some are hood rats those are the ones that want you to call them bitches and ask to fukk Some are undercover ho's those are the ones that front like they dont do shit or want more out of life then allow you to talk to them like they are a piece of shit or clown you when you have a certain level of respect then there are the classy ladies those are the type that take no shit especially disrespect at any level those are the ladies with self esteem and a good head on their shoulders!!

Co-sign
Cuffs2g
@ Sets most women don't want a nice guy. Dey want 50cent nahmean? Girls say dey want a nice guy that respects them but they don't, its all in how you look dress and what you drive being nice is secondary and when you speak to them like you have a brain dey don't think your alpha male enough to be grimey.

@ Lost Guys that fuck you ,spend ya money etc and don't wanna be your man are called players, that is game there running. They want to be able to have dere pick of women while always keepin dere options open while at the same time having you locked down.

@ Mimi, thats called a test, a guy will tell his friends to holla at you to see where ya heart lies. Also if its his good friend he's on his side cuz he prolly fucked his boys girl and vice-versa you gotta undastand in male friendships girlfriends change but ya niggas stay around for ever.

Setsotama
yeah but they tend to push me to my limits to the point I just say: FUCK IT!!!!
MIMI_05
QUOTE (Cuffs2g @ Aug 23 2005, 07:19 PM)
@ Sets most women don't want a nice guy. Dey want 50cent nahmean? Girls say dey want a nice guy that respects them but they don't, its all in how you look dress and what you drive being nice is secondary and when you speak to them like you have a brain dey don't think your alpha male enough to be grimey.


its ok to approach me nicely...but of course i dont want an over sensitive man or one who cant defend himself..he dont have to be like 50 cent an be whoopin my ass unsure.gif thats not attractive
Nigerianprincess
I got a question! Why cant niggas be Faithful and tell the gotdamn Truth????????
Whats so hard about it!!! mad.gif
Somebody please tell me!!!!
Setsotama
Oh believe me, I'd kick a niggas ass in a heart beat, I'd bitch slap them so fast Snoop Dogg will crown for my patent bitch slappin



@NigerianPrincess, alot of niggas wanna be players, point blank



But I'm faithful and loyal til the end
Cuffs2g
I do have one question ladies, why is that the guy who treats girls right neva get da pussy but da assholes(me) who don't call when dey said dey would dey give it to them on da quickness?


I think it so dumb for a chick I fuck to tell me after we're done "my boyfriend ain't even fucked me yet" I'm like damn you should have given to him at least he'll be around next we laugh.gif laugh.gif
Nigerianprincess
QUOTE (MIMI_05 @ Aug 23 2005, 07:22 PM)


[/QUOTE]
its ok to approach me nicely...but of course i dont want an over sensitive man or one who cant defend himself..he dont have to be like 50 cent an be whoopin my ass unsure.gif thats not attractive

yea dont be a pussy!! but dont hit my ass either.
BABYCORN
@Cuffs cuz you fuck with ho's and they probably lying to you anyways your game that much on point you hittin before the man hell naw fall back with that laugh.gif
Cuffs2g
QUOTE (Nigerianprincess @ Aug 23 2005, 07:23 PM)
I got a question! Why cant niggas be Faithful and tell the gotdamn Truth????????
Whats so hard about it!!! mad.gif
Somebody please tell me!!!!

@ nigerian niggas are only faithful if they have erything in da girl dere wit. ie if da girl ya wit don't suck dick you gonna go find one that does, if da girl ya wit don't fuck much he's gonna find one dat does, most of the reason dudes cheat is that they can't find erything dey want in one woman so they cheat to find those qualities in a multitude of women

the lyin is to cover the cheatin
Nigerianprincess
QUOTE (Cuffs2g @ Aug 23 2005, 07:24 PM)
I do have one question ladies, why is that the guy who treats girls right neva get da pussy but da assholes(me) who don't call when dey said dey would dey give it to them on da quickness?


I think it so dumb for a chick I fuck to tell me after we're done "my boyfriend ain't even fucked me yet" I'm like damn you should have given to him at least he'll be around next we laugh.gif laugh.gif

i dont know. i guess its the attitude that the other nigga has that just turns girls on. i mean its good to be nice. but dont be sooooo nice!!!! u feel me!!! thats not always good!!!
Nigerianprincess
QUOTE (Cuffs2g @ Aug 23 2005, 07:27 PM)

[/QUOTE]
@ nigerian niggas are only faithful if they have erything in da girl dere wit. ie if da girl ya wit don't suck dick you gonna go find one that does, if da girl ya wit don't fuck much he's gonna find one dat does, most of the reason dudes cheat is that they can't find erything dey want in one woman so they cheat to find those qualities in a multitude of women

the lyin is to cover the cheatin

Thats stupid b/c if u want to be with that other bitch then go to her ass.
MIMI_05
QUESTION!!!!

im the smallest one out of the girls in my family the rest of them are heavy set,fat or whateva u wanna call it

y do guys that say they dont mess with big girls be the main ones fucken em?! i mean whats up!? are u ashamed to admit it? i dont see the big deal


@ cuffs..they stupid! thats the only explanation..or they aint had none in a while
BABYCORN
yup don't waste my time
Cuffs2g
it doesn't always happen babycorn but I feel a girl pussy is her weapon so she gonna give it up if she thinks she'll lose you without doing it.

Da only way I beat a boyfriend to the pussy is if he's a real lame and will be their forever nahmean? Yall know yall seen those relationships where da girl is in charge heavy and da man ain't goin no where? Well those are the ones where i can fuck da girl before he does. But that isn't often I didnt mean to make it seem that way.

I feel you princess cuz I ain't never nice laugh.gif treat da hoes like good girls and the good girls like hoes and you'll get em erytime
MIMI_05
QUOTE (Nigerianprincess @ Aug 23 2005, 07:28 PM)

i dont know. i guess its the attitude that the other nigga has that just turns girls on. i mean its good to be nice. but dont be sooooo nice!!!! u feel me!!! thats not always good!!!

yup

laugh.gif @ cuffs last comment
Nigerianprincess
QUOTE (Cuffs2g @ Aug 23 2005, 07:32 PM)
it doesn't always happen babycorn but I feel a girl pussy is her weapon so she gonna give it up if she thinks she'll lose you without doing it.

Da only way I beat a boyfriend to the pussy is if he's a real lame and will be their forever nahmean?  Yall know yall seen those relationships where da girl is in charge heavy and da man ain't goin no where?  Well those are the ones where i can fuck da girl before he does.  But that isn't often I didnt mean to make it seem that way.

I feel you princess cuz I ain't never nice laugh.gif  treat da hoes like good girls and the good girls like hoes and you'll get em erytime

Right!!!!!! it sounds crazy but its so true
BABYCORN
Sad but true but in my case game recognize game cool.gif
LOSTGYRL..WYNDBLEW
alot of people say..


age ain't nothing but a number..

but with that number should could wisdom..


one could be young, but experienced life in a different light than
someone older.. and have more understanding.. most of the time it's
the other way around.. so listen to your elders especially when they are making sense.

anywoo..

if you feel the way you play the game is fair.. then to each it's own, but if you see you are the only one without a "shawty" then you need to go back to the reader's guide to "bagging that T.P" (total package)

peace
Cuffs2g
QUOTE (MIMI_05 @ Aug 23 2005, 07:30 PM)
QUESTION!!!!

im the smallest one out of the girls in my family the rest of them are heavy set,fat or whateva u wanna call it

y do guys that say they dont mess with big girls be the main ones fucken em?! i mean whats up!? are u ashamed to admit it? i dont see the big deal


@ cuffs..they stupid! thats the only explanation..or they aint had none in a while

yup dey are ashamed most of the time especially if they think dere real fly.
as for me big or small Cuffs fucks em all! and I ain't no ugly dude nahmean? I just really really really like fuckin!

"I might hit a dime or I might hit a deuce" Jadakiss
MIMI_05
QUOTE (Cuffs2g @ Aug 23 2005, 07:38 PM)
as for me big or small Cuffs fucks em all! and I ain't no ugly dude nahmean? I just really really really like fuckin!


laugh.gif wow...
LOSTGYRL..WYNDBLEW
QUOTE (Cuffs2g @ Aug 23 2005, 07:19 PM)
@ Sets most women don't want a nice guy. Dey want 50cent nahmean? Girls say dey want a nice guy that respects them but they don't, its all in how you look dress and what you drive being nice is secondary and when you speak to them like you have a brain dey don't think your alpha male enough to be grimey.

@ Lost Guys that fuck you ,spend ya money etc and don't wanna be your man are called players, that is game there running. They want to be able to have dere pick of women while always keepin dere options open while at the same time having you locked down.

@ Mimi, thats called a test, a guy will tell his friends to holla at you to see where ya heart lies. Also if its his good friend he's on his side cuz he prolly fucked his boys girl and vice-versa you gotta undastand in male friendships girlfriends change but ya niggas stay around for ever.

you mis-understood.....



as far as what I was putting out..



first of all a true player is someone who can stand on their own.


the question was why do you guys feel you're in control when you're not?????
Cuffs2g
If I spend a women's money, drive her car, and fuck other women and she puts up wit it den I would say dat I was in control. And a lot of guys do that and that is why they feel dere in control. I don't personally do that now(i'm 23now but from bout 16-19 I did)

A player isn't one who can stand on dere own a player is one who fucks a lot of girls, nothin more

xDyMeOnDx
QUOTE (MIMI_05 @ Aug 23 2005, 06:57 PM)
QUOTE (Crk1019 @ Aug 23 2005, 06:48 PM)
how we supposed to come at yall then??

like u got some sense! i dont wanna hear u yellin out the car " hey shawty" or "come here girl" or " u thick as hell" that shit is so immature! can i atleast get a "how u doing"?... sleep.gif

oo, girl, on the real...
If a man can't get up to come talk to me, and instead hollas for me to come over there, I'ma act like I'm deaf... If a man stepped to me bein' polite and said somethin' like "hey girl, how you doin today?" it would be so refreshing. Women that respond to being called out like dogs have issues...
ShortyG
Y do guys want the girls 2 give head, but they cant go domwn on a girl without it being a problem, or them having to pay back???

Do all guys want is sex, and no relationship?

N y do guys get mad when a girls doesnt want 2 do anything with him?
MsTrini05
What i dnt understand with some of yall niggaz is why when yall in a relationship with a shawty whose good as shyt to ur ass and yall just cant seem to see and mess up a good relationship by lyin and being unfaithfull? Niggaz always complaining about ladies not noticing a good man when hes right in her face but some nioggaz do the same.....
I know im a good women to my man...you treat me good ill cater to you..but do me dirty then ima be a bitch...For example ive been dating this nigga for 2-3 months now and the type of female i am is ill pay sometimes and you can pay other times....youll never be hungry cuz ima always feed you...and if you dnt lie or cheat ill satisfy you sexual anyway, anywhere, anyhow......but the nigga started to act dumb...why? cuz some of yall niggaz cant spot a good women if she was right in your face....yall to busy tryna stunt.....
And if a nigga can.... Please prove me wrong!
Yosoaun
QUOTE (MIMI_05 @ Aug 23 2005, 07:30 PM)
QUESTION!!!!

im the smallest one out of the girls in my family the rest of them are heavy set,fat or whateva u wanna call it

y do guys that say they dont mess with big girls be the main ones fucken em?! i mean whats up!? are u ashamed to admit it? i dont see the big deal


@ cuffs..they stupid! thats the only explanation..or they aint had none in a while

Hey Everybody I am new to the forum so I want to say whats up. I really wanted to respond to this question though.

I dont know what level of big girl you mean. I am a size 10-12, but I feel that I am a big girl. Anyway, I know that it is because the guys are ashamed. I have never had a problem with getting a guy and my friends who are small have never understood this, but I am a cool chick and alot of guys just like me. Not being conceited or anything, just have been raised around alot of guys, so I comfortable with them.

I have had guys that I am seeing say if you lose weight you would be a dyme. My only response is why are you with me then. I mean why even approach a girl if you are not attracted to her? You know I am a smart chick and I understand guys wanting to show off their girls or what not, but damn I'm far from ugly, just a little thicker, tongue.gif But in relationships each person wants to show off their partner, even if we dont know it. I think that it is insecurity though, if you do not want to admit to liking a big girl. Alot of guys think that it is a reflection of them(character) who they choose to be with, same with women though.

Anyway I break up with the lose weight to be a size six guys, hell I have to much ass and tits to be that damn small anyhow. Funny thing is 2 of the guy (I have been talking about) friends tried to talk to me after we stopped talking. rolleyes.gif laugh.gif
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