Modest Jones: “Right now, I really am at my sexual peak”
You could cut the sexual tension with a knife, viewing Modest Jones’ throwback interview with Maino five years ago. After a move from New York to Las Vegas, the model, who was depicted in the Kiss & Tail: The Hollywood Jump-off, is back and better than ever. Here, XXL gets her to shed her modesty for some straightforward sex talk. Everything from the best sex to favorite positions and how to initiate a threesome are touched on. Now what’s Modest about that?
XXL: What have you been up to the last few years?
Modest Jones: I kind of took some time to focus on my family and making money more than just being out there because I feel like I been out there enough. I got into the promotional side of the modeling and I actually been focusing on more acting. I moved all the way from New York to Vegas, so that was a big jump.
XXL: You’ve done quite a few interviews that stick out in people’s eyes, namely the Maino interview.
Jones:The Maino interview is the one that everyone brings to my attention. That’s the big one. Other than that, the other thing I get approached for a lot is the documentary for the Superhead documentary, Kiss & Tail. My face is seen a lot in that movie and a lot of people didn’t agree with my opinions in that film. But more than anything, the Maino one. People stop me in the street and ask, “So did you give him some or not?” That’s all everyone wants to know. They inbox me on Facebook. I actually filmed that in 2006 and it didn’t get poppin till 2008 and now it’s 2011 and people are still talking about it. It was so long ago. I’m still that person, though. He was telling me what he was going to do to me.
XXL:Well, did you give Maino some?
Jones: No, actually I didn’t. We exchanged numbers afterwards, but we never even hung out after that. I think we were following each other on Twitter, but that’s about as far as it went. But I know it boosted both of our careers, that little interview. When I was first offered that job, I didn’t even know who Maino was. Not taking anything away from him, but at that time – 2006 – he had just shown up. I had to look him up a little bit, but I didn’t know who I was encountering. I thought he was cute and he had a little swag to him. He didn’t beast with me too hard. I’m sure the way things went, if I wanted to get with him or any of his friends in a way that I wanted to give him booty that night, then that would have happened. I actually have not seen him since.
XXL: You were also giving online sex advice. How do you like doing that?
Jones: I love looking at everything from all different outlooks and I think that’s what makes me good at giving advice because I’m very open-minded. I’m willing to hear your side and something in my mind just puts things together. After all the experience I’ve had, which I’ll admit I’ve had a lot of different experiences, I think I can definitely help.
XXL:Oh really? Let’s call you on that. So, what do you think makes the best sex?
Jones: What makes the best sex is the connection you have with the person. After having sex with a person that I truly had feelings for and I felt like they were reciprocated, I feel like no sex ever matched up to that. So, that’s when I stopped having one-night stands. I’m not able to just meet somebody and jump in the bed with them. Whereas if you talked to me back in college, I may have told you a different story. Even for me to give my number to a guy, I have to feel that spark. I think I know right away, whether I’ll have sex with somebody.
XXL: How does a dude go about talking his girl into a threesome with another chick?
Jones: Say you’re my man. We have to be in cahoots because we have to agree on a female first of all. Once we decide, Ok she’s going to be the one. I think the most important thing is to make sure the three of us are having a good time together. I think it’s more on the girl’s end to initiate. I would try to find out if she been with a girl or wants to. For some reason, I tend to be that girl who even woman who may not be bi or know that they’re bi, seem to like me.
XXL: Are you bi?
Jones: I am bi. Only thing is at this point in my life, I’m dating in the hopes that that person could potentially be a partner. Only thing with a woman is I know I’m not going to be satisfied with just a woman for the rest of my life. So, I don’t date women anymore persay, but I wouldn’t mind bringing a gift home to daddy.
XXL: What are your turn-ons in the bedroom?
Jones: If a guy pulls my hair or sometimes says something off the wall. Definitely the hair pulling thing. That’s hot, definitely. I’ve liked when all of a sudden a guy spit down there. Guy or girl – the best thing you can do is not have rules. The minute you have rules, that’s such a turn-off. We should be open and able to explore each other. The worst thing that can happen is you can do something that’s really strange and I’ll start laughing. I say pull the hair, slap this, don’t worry about it hurting. I probably won’t even notice.
XXL: So your favorite position must be doggystyle?
Jones: Yeah, I like to be on my stomach. I like it from the back. I like it from the back . . . it’s deeper penetration and I just like it (laughing). That’s when I got my best orgasms – from the back.
XXL: What’s this about knowing you’ll have sex with someone within the first 10 seconds of meeting them?
Jones: Yes, I’ll give you an example. I’m single. Since I been here in Las Vegas, I haven’t done it with anyone. For the past month or so, I’ve been alone. Just the other day, I was out – I work in a casino – and there was a guy and we met eyes and when we met eyes, I felt something instantly. Clearly, I liked the way he looked, but it was more like an energy between us. It was like I was meant to meet him. I actually found him and gave him my number later just because I haven’t felt like that about anybody in a long time. Now when I see him, I totally want him. I totally want to sleep with him. At that moment in time, we were meant to see each other.
XXL: What can a guy do to get and keep your attention?
Jones: To keep me interested and turn me on, be yourself, be honest, look me in my eye and keep it real with me. Man, if you can handle me you really have a chance. It’s really that simple. Right now, I really am at my sexual peak.