Comments on: Hating Women Means You Hate Yourself #thingsblackgirlsdo

By: theTRUTH

theTRUTH — Wed, 29 Dec 2010 17:36:37 +0000

C’MON SON!!!
It’s OK to SAVE – A – HO?

Negro please. That is called a trick. You can’t save a ho that doesnt want to be saved.

I disagree with the forum and I see your point, but all women are not equal, some women are bitches some women are hoes.
I once held all women up on a pedalstole myself, moms 2 older sisters, 6 aunts, a boat load of females cousins, but one of my sisters broke it down for me when I was younger. Never call all women bitches or hoes, but their are some out there.

By: Thwack

Thwack — Sat, 20 Nov 2010 21:55:12 +0000

Hate to break it to you, but this is mostly bullshit. The truth is that bitches generally get with/fuck two types of men: 1) men with money, whom they use for obvious reasons, and 2) assholes, who turn them on and who are their first choice, all else being equal—meaning, they also have money–to fuck and be with. That’s why women get treated the way they do (and it’s true of women of other races too, but it’s particularly bad among black women–white women tend to at least want assholes with a good job and a solid foundation), because guys have figured out that they won’t fuck you unless you treat them that way. Go around being courteous and kind and respectful, and you’ll have lots of “friends”, but that’s about it. Bitches will get bored with you and think that you’re weak, and they’ll find someone more “exciting” to fuck. Think about any of the kind, respectful dudes that you know, and then think about the straight arrogant, assholes who carry women like Cha says you shouldn’t, and think about who gets far and away the most attention from women. Even a lot of these educated women that Cha is talking about are the same way. I know a woman with a Master’s Degree that went to prison (via mail) to meet her husband (she ended of marrying somebody in my family, and she met him while he was behind bars). Meanwhile, I know lots of good dudes working hard everyday at decent paying jobs, who have never been to prison, “never arrested for nothing domestic”, and these women ignore them, and don’t want to have anything to do with them when they figure out that there’s nothing “exciting” about them. This is the shit that you can’t talk about in the mainstream media, but this is the reality of what goes on everyday in the streets. There are exceptions, of course, and feel lucky if you have one, but most of these “stereotypes” ring true for an awful lot of women.

By: Smallz

Smallz — Thu, 18 Nov 2010 15:49:12 +0000

Nah, he means 85 smart guy. 10% might know what’s real but they will sell you that b.s. for they own personal gain, the 5% left are the real… educating people like you @ thestunna

By: Charlamagne Tha God Goes Deep About Black Women And Our View Of Them

Charlamagne Tha God Goes Deep About Black Women And Our View Of Them — Thu, 18 Nov 2010 03:51:42 +0000

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By: KGdaArtist

KGdaArtist — Thu, 18 Nov 2010 03:40:23 +0000

Just excellent. Wonderful blog my good sir

By: J

Wed, 17 Nov 2010 15:18:17 +0000

Someone else on here said it best. If you are only meeting bum broads, you, my friend, are a BUM. Women aren’t just “Tina Wells” or “Keisha”, there are plenty in between who are working, going to school, not in the clubs, etc. that don’t want to be put into your small-minded categories…

By: thestunna

thestunna — Wed, 17 Nov 2010 00:01:40 +0000

Idiot u mean 95%…dummies tryna sound smart

By: EF Cuttin

EF Cuttin — Tue, 16 Nov 2010 23:34:56 +0000

I see your point Cha,but…and U follow me on twitter so U know how I rock,but women must look in the mirror and accept their part in this,instead of trying 2 play victim.Most Black men are raised in exclusively female households,so where are we learning how 2 bash women???FROM THE WOMEN THEMSELVES!!!Most women dont get along with each other and project that image 4 all 2 see…Just sit and observe a group of high school girls in conversation,shit will shock U to the core.Its time 2 own up 2 the bullshit that we put out there…

By: Niyemortal

Niyemortal — Tue, 16 Nov 2010 22:09:01 +0000

While i do agree with what you said about how derogatory it is, Cha, there’s a hell of a lot more trending topics on Twitter bashing MEN more than it is women. So it could be a case of those dudes that were dissed retaliating…but on topic, this was a good post. We really do need to reduce if not completely eliminate the objectifying of our women, but like some of the comments above have already mentioned, finding good women who don’t fit those stereotypes is not as easy as it used to be. This is all coming from a Black gentleman who is in school, who does read, who doesnt really do clubs, who actually goes to the bookstore (i just went and copped “Decoded” and “I wonder as I Wander” today) and i see everyday on how there are a lot of prejudices that not only women put on other men, but we all as a people put on ourselves.

By: westcoastaggie

westcoastaggie — Tue, 16 Nov 2010 20:25:12 +0000

Define real?

By: Sad Trugh

Sad Trugh — Tue, 16 Nov 2010 18:23:22 +0000

My best friend and I talk about this ALL the time. Most black women are trash! They’re happy making babies and collecting government checks. A lot of these women suffer from low self-esteem and daddy issues. Respect is earned not given and frankly, these women out here don’t deserve it. I look at the girls I graduated from high school with. Majority of them didn’t go to college or do anything else productive with their lives. Twenty-two or twenty-three years old and already on baby #2 or 3 and no job, just waiting on WIC and a welfare card. Job well done, Charlamagne. Been a fan of yours since you were on the radio with Frosty here in Columbia.

FYI I’m a black woman.

By: Don mcCaine

Don mcCaine — Mon, 15 Nov 2010 22:50:29 +0000

Worley says:

Bottom line is some people are just lost.

^ and don’t want to be found

By: Warren D

Warren D — Mon, 15 Nov 2010 22:43:44 +0000

bitches aint shit but hoes and tricks

nuff said

By: alderman j

alderman j — Mon, 15 Nov 2010 22:24:51 +0000

And then they be on this CRUSADE to show everybody “THEY DONT NEED NO MAN”, to hell with em, first thing a sista wanna know is where a nigga work, and how many kids you got. I aint paying nobodys bills, or getting nobodys hair done unless you done paid dues, then you get what i get. But if you got this attitude like you dont need a man and most men aint bout shit and aint got no job and got a bunch of baby mama drama, KICK ROCKS!! I aint got time for it. Im the catch!!! SPOKEN BY A NIGGA THAT WORKS FOR A FORTUNE 500 COMPANY FOR MULTIPLE YEARS, NO KIDS, TWO WHIPS ONE PAID FOR, AND A PLAN TO RETIRE AT THE AGE OF 50 THATS ON SCHEDULE!!! FUCK EM!!DONT NEED EM!!

By: Escobar9300

Escobar9300 — Mon, 15 Nov 2010 21:58:18 +0000

Man, every time I’m ready to write Sha off as being full of it, he drops some real knowledge. My sentiments exactly son, thanks for dropping the other side of the coin.

By: alderman j

alderman j — Mon, 15 Nov 2010 21:47:04 +0000

C THA GOD, you produce some bangers, but on this subject, i gotta chime in, IF THE SHOE FITS WEAR IT, THEY NEED TO STOP DOING ALL THE THINGS THAT GET POINTED OUT, NOT SAYING ALL THEM DO THE THINGS MENTIONED, BUT SOME DO ALL THE THINGS MENTIONED, THATS THE TRUTH!!!AINT NO LIE, ITS SOME SISTERS THAT ARE LIKE SUPER HEROES, (2 KIDS, NO BABY DADDY, JOB, SCHOOL, RENT, CAR NOTE, STILL STAY FLY, AND DONT BE OUT GETTING SCREWED BY EVERYBODY) but it aint too many of those!!! REAL TALK!!!

By: diamond district

diamond district — Mon, 15 Nov 2010 20:29:01 +0000

the truth is, some women dont want to be saved. Try to reach out to them, and they’ll start talkin shit like “you aint my daddy” and “can’t no nigga tell me what to do”. I do agree, we tend to generalize, but you can’t help someone who doesn’t know they need help

By: Kashif...

Kashif... — Mon, 15 Nov 2010 20:25:23 +0000

THAT’S REAL SHIT! Definite co-sign…

By: these posts are racist

these posts are racist — Mon, 15 Nov 2010 18:44:38 +0000

Great drop my brother.

By: Deadly MIME

Deadly MIME — Mon, 15 Nov 2010 17:27:45 +0000

Damn it’s been a while. But I’ll say this, hoes are called hoes for a reason. A real black man would not try to be with one and sees a woman for who she is.. Now Char pointed out that borthers should play the “Captain Save-A-Ho” role. Coming from a person that has played this role in the last 4 years, that shit does not play out like it seems. Cause a hoe’s behavior is her comfort zone. She’s used to doing what she’s doing. I had alot of ex’s that I tried to save and many didn’t want saving. They rather wanted to be with the guy that had material and money. In return getting abused mentally and physcially. A woman reflects man. Yes it does. I’ll go even deeper and saying that the women that are hoes or behave in that manner because there was no strong father figure. No true example of what a man is. So she has to find daddy in niggas she ends up with. Do I agree that women has to be treated with repsect? yes. Fo sho. But with my recent experiences with my exs running round Tampa, FL fucking every nigga they see I can’t see how I can respect that. I ain’t those brothers that hate my black women. I’m just disappointed at the things they do to themselves because no one early on in their life validated their worth.