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		<title>By: Anonymous</title>
		<link>http://www.xxlmag.com/news/bloggers/2006/05/mothers-day-reality-check/#comment-1652867</link>
		<dc:creator>Anonymous</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sun, 02 May 2010 17:30:09 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[magnum up or pay up suckers ya&#039;ll ain&#039;t never gonna b shit, pussy in ya face with puss bubbles assholes!!!!!!!!!!!!]]></description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>magnum up or pay up suckers ya&#8217;ll ain&#8217;t never gonna b shit, pussy in ya face with puss bubbles assholes!!!!!!!!!!!!</p>
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		<title>By: funinthesun</title>
		<link>http://www.xxlmag.com/news/bloggers/2006/05/mothers-day-reality-check/#comment-284792</link>
		<dc:creator>funinthesun</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 14 Feb 2007 22:06:25 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[woah someone needs to shoot u.]]></description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>woah someone needs to shoot u.</p>
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		<title>By: You're a Joke</title>
		<link>http://www.xxlmag.com/news/bloggers/2006/05/mothers-day-reality-check/#comment-283123</link>
		<dc:creator>You're a Joke</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 13 Feb 2007 15:52:44 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[This is old as hell and I just ran across it and maybe even a reason to stay away from this site if this is its voice.  

You made the point.  The wrong way of course, but still.  This is &quot;an age of relatively easy and inexpensive access to family planning services&quot;.  Men have hat the easiest least expensive form of family planning for more than 50 years. Condoms.  If men KNOW they don&#039;t want a child or a commitment to a woman, then MEN should wrap that shit up and take responsibility.  Don&#039;t blame women for your shortcomings.  You know you want to roll, but you give up your LIFE for a fleeting feeling and you call women dumb whores?  Wrap it up, Dummy.]]></description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>This is old as hell and I just ran across it and maybe even a reason to stay away from this site if this is its voice.  </p>
<p>You made the point.  The wrong way of course, but still.  This is &#8220;an age of relatively easy and inexpensive access to family planning services&#8221;.  Men have hat the easiest least expensive form of family planning for more than 50 years. Condoms.  If men KNOW they don&#8217;t want a child or a commitment to a woman, then MEN should wrap that shit up and take responsibility.  Don&#8217;t blame women for your shortcomings.  You know you want to roll, but you give up your LIFE for a fleeting feeling and you call women dumb whores?  Wrap it up, Dummy.</p>
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		<title>By: You're a Joke</title>
		<link>http://www.xxlmag.com/news/bloggers/2006/05/mothers-day-reality-check/#comment-283121</link>
		<dc:creator>You're a Joke</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 13 Feb 2007 15:46:12 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[This is old as hell and I just came across it and a reason to stay away from this site.  

You made the point, the wrong way, but you made it. This is &quot;an age of relatively easy and inexpensive access to family planning services&quot;  and men have always had the EASIEST form of birth control at their disposal (condoms).  The bottom line IS and always WILL BE that if a man doesn&#039;t want to have a child wrap that shit up and stop blaming women for your shortcomings and inability to take responsibility for your actions.  

If YOU know you don&#039;t want to have a child, then YOU stop making the woman responsible for YOUR desires.  It appears that the men are the stupid whores if they don&#039;t bother to protect themselves and leave themselves at the mercy of a woman they don&#039;t even love.  Dummy]]></description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>This is old as hell and I just came across it and a reason to stay away from this site.  </p>
<p>You made the point, the wrong way, but you made it. This is &#8220;an age of relatively easy and inexpensive access to family planning services&#8221;  and men have always had the EASIEST form of birth control at their disposal (condoms).  The bottom line IS and always WILL BE that if a man doesn&#8217;t want to have a child wrap that shit up and stop blaming women for your shortcomings and inability to take responsibility for your actions.  </p>
<p>If YOU know you don&#8217;t want to have a child, then YOU stop making the woman responsible for YOUR desires.  It appears that the men are the stupid whores if they don&#8217;t bother to protect themselves and leave themselves at the mercy of a woman they don&#8217;t even love.  Dummy</p>
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		<title>By: Does it matter?</title>
		<link>http://www.xxlmag.com/news/bloggers/2006/05/mothers-day-reality-check/#comment-250790</link>
		<dc:creator>Does it matter?</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sun, 14 Jan 2007 14:51:59 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[and your black coon ass is perpetuating all that you stated by not being a part of your own childs life.

you are a weak sorry ass excuse for a man - regardless of race. you are an example of another black &quot;male&quot; trying to skirt personal responsibility and accountability. good riddens with all of your kind.

when your kind is gone - the world will be a better place.]]></description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>and your black coon ass is perpetuating all that you stated by not being a part of your own childs life.</p>
<p>you are a weak sorry ass excuse for a man &#8211; regardless of race. you are an example of another black &#8220;male&#8221; trying to skirt personal responsibility and accountability. good riddens with all of your kind.</p>
<p>when your kind is gone &#8211; the world will be a better place.</p>
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		<title>By: DHLite</title>
		<link>http://www.xxlmag.com/news/bloggers/2006/05/mothers-day-reality-check/#comment-157029</link>
		<dc:creator>DHLite</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 26 Oct 2006 20:29:07 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[truth]]></description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>truth</p>
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		<title>By: lashawn</title>
		<link>http://www.xxlmag.com/news/bloggers/2006/05/mothers-day-reality-check/#comment-124558</link>
		<dc:creator>lashawn</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 26 Sep 2006 02:34:03 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[what are u talking about? R u a man or woman. Doesn&#039;t matter because you&#039;re definitely ignorant. So you&#039;re saying that all women who weren&#039;t married before they got pregnant was dating a jail-bird? Check yourself. I&#039;m currently a student taking Sociology which you clearly haven&#039;t taken. Every situation is different, so for you to generalize any situation is called ignorance. That same woman who was married and lost her husband due to a death may have gotten pregnant by another man. Just because they were married doesn&#039;t mean that the baby is his. I know about this situation personally because it happenened to my uncle who has 2 paternal kids, but test proved that the third kid isn&#039;t his but the court ordered him to pay child support anyway because he&#039;s been taking care of the child since she was born. Basicallly, the point is I don&#039;t care what the circumstances were before the child was born, every man and woman should take care of their own. Get back at me, I hate to see your mind continuing to be ignorant and I pray that it doesn&#039;t spread. You just giving dead-beats an excuse to not be responsible.]]></description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>what are u talking about? R u a man or woman. Doesn&#8217;t matter because you&#8217;re definitely ignorant. So you&#8217;re saying that all women who weren&#8217;t married before they got pregnant was dating a jail-bird? Check yourself. I&#8217;m currently a student taking Sociology which you clearly haven&#8217;t taken. Every situation is different, so for you to generalize any situation is called ignorance. That same woman who was married and lost her husband due to a death may have gotten pregnant by another man. Just because they were married doesn&#8217;t mean that the baby is his. I know about this situation personally because it happenened to my uncle who has 2 paternal kids, but test proved that the third kid isn&#8217;t his but the court ordered him to pay child support anyway because he&#8217;s been taking care of the child since she was born. Basicallly, the point is I don&#8217;t care what the circumstances were before the child was born, every man and woman should take care of their own. Get back at me, I hate to see your mind continuing to be ignorant and I pray that it doesn&#8217;t spread. You just giving dead-beats an excuse to not be responsible.</p>
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		<title>By: Raven</title>
		<link>http://www.xxlmag.com/news/bloggers/2006/05/mothers-day-reality-check/#comment-100601</link>
		<dc:creator>Raven</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 31 Aug 2006 06:28:53 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[The author hit a hot topic thats finally been coming up in recent years. Since 1995 here in texas, these single mothers have had children out of wedlock for reasons of self-gain, yet some do have &quot;accidents&quot; there are women out there that will purposely get pregnate in order to get by life&#039;s reality. In respect to the real single moms that work they&#039;re butt off without seeking anyones  help I honor you.  But ive seen it up close mostly in Black females(i dated white females which always seem to have an alternative to having a child if it was out of wedlock, they take the other options Adoption, BIRTHCONTROL, and if they have to they&#039;ll get an Abortion) Yet when it comes to Black females they see this and use this as an OPT to do the &quot;HOOD-RAT COME UP&quot; having a mindset &quot;well if i cant have him no one else will if i have a baby by him&quot; Texas pays a woman up to $1000 in TANF/WIC plus other assistance if the WOMAN has more than 1 child out of wedlock she can also get SECTION 8 which ends up basically a free house. Nothing she has to pay back. thats the main reason i see black women having kids these days for lower-rent vouchers, food, and more when child support kicks in yea it &quot;SUPPOSELY IS&quot;  for the child how ever its not tracked where the real money went. Texas has adopted a Child-support Debit card for these tracking purposes, but statics are still out for those opting to take it.. i wonder why? Instead they say &quot;send me a check instead&quot; It should be Mandatory. With womens rights groups fuming over pro-choice/LIFE rights and Mens groups now getting attention this debate i feel is just only getting started. Maybe someday there will be Sweeping National Family Laws that can even out this conflict. BUSH IS MAKING THESE &quot;NEW WELFARE QUEENS WORK&quot;, but there are still loopholes .Until then i would recommend to just not get with any woman who is not meeting you on a same equal level(education,Mentality, stability,employment ..not counting stripping..and  Morals) without a doubt you have to admit there are some Bad mothers out there , killing kids, custody disputes, MAURY PERTAINITY SHOWS etc. However there are GOOD black men that do get burnt by these types of women, Why is it more common that single black women-mothers get with goons that are drug dealers, hustlers, &#039;cause they want to be taken care of. If she doesnt have her own she&#039;s gonna use what she can to get what she wants. I pay child-support and yea it hurts but i look at it like this.. While im working, im getting far more employment experience surpassing any college applicant due to tenure,Knowledge, Credibility,AND Proving im a FIT parent than she. meanwhile she&#039;s chasing her next catch to have another kid. who loses out in the end children do. but again these women DO NOT think of the children 1st. if so they would not have BORN them INTO poverty in the 1st place. With this experience each time i look at black women here in dallas, i say to myself&quot; what was the real reason she has 2,3,4 kids?&quot; its all about knowing .. are you willing to work for what you want in life? OR are you willing to fuck who u can to get what you want in life? I will never be a man taking care of some kids that are not mine WHY ITS MY CHOICE, I SHOULD NOT BE HELD ACCOUNTABLE FOR THE YOUNG HOODRATS HAVING THESE KIDS WHEN I DONT KNOW THEM AT ALL (but hey my taxes does anyway). I WILL NEVER DATE A BLACK/WHITE woman with kids where the bio-logical father is not present in the kids life in the 1st place you&#039;re just asking for becoming a step father EASY SIGNAL although they&#039;ll deny they trying to find a father figure some will give plenty of &quot;FEEL SORRY FOR ME STORIES&quot;. If we black men stopped dating/fucking women who already has a young babies eventually it could get in their heads to stop abusing us and the system. never trust a big bootie and a smile. but Paybacks are a Bitch and in Dallas recently about 82% on new HIV/AIDS cases are coming from these same types of BLACK WOMEN which are heterosexual. perfect ammo to use in a custody case. no matter what WE are stuck with our fuckups and i only have 6 more years of support to give so all that she did it for was a $200/month check. THINK my brotha&#039;s our sista&#039;s are the ones that have made hip-hop into what it is today, if not their sales on the charts wouldnt be an indicator and no matter who wants to deny it. Rap is VERY INFLUENTIAL to the NEW YOUNGSTERS THAT GREW UP WATCHING BET AKA&quot;BET BABIES&quot; if they changed their messages maybe inturn it can change our minds..
peace
-&quot;A raven that whispers in your ear&quot;]]></description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>The author hit a hot topic thats finally been coming up in recent years. Since 1995 here in texas, these single mothers have had children out of wedlock for reasons of self-gain, yet some do have &#8220;accidents&#8221; there are women out there that will purposely get pregnate in order to get by life&#8217;s reality. In respect to the real single moms that work they&#8217;re butt off without seeking anyones  help I honor you.  But ive seen it up close mostly in Black females(i dated white females which always seem to have an alternative to having a child if it was out of wedlock, they take the other options Adoption, BIRTHCONTROL, and if they have to they&#8217;ll get an Abortion) Yet when it comes to Black females they see this and use this as an OPT to do the &#8220;HOOD-RAT COME UP&#8221; having a mindset &#8220;well if i cant have him no one else will if i have a baby by him&#8221; Texas pays a woman up to $1000 in TANF/WIC plus other assistance if the WOMAN has more than 1 child out of wedlock she can also get SECTION 8 which ends up basically a free house. Nothing she has to pay back. thats the main reason i see black women having kids these days for lower-rent vouchers, food, and more when child support kicks in yea it &#8220;SUPPOSELY IS&#8221;  for the child how ever its not tracked where the real money went. Texas has adopted a Child-support Debit card for these tracking purposes, but statics are still out for those opting to take it.. i wonder why? Instead they say &#8220;send me a check instead&#8221; It should be Mandatory. With womens rights groups fuming over pro-choice/LIFE rights and Mens groups now getting attention this debate i feel is just only getting started. Maybe someday there will be Sweeping National Family Laws that can even out this conflict. BUSH IS MAKING THESE &#8220;NEW WELFARE QUEENS WORK&#8221;, but there are still loopholes .Until then i would recommend to just not get with any woman who is not meeting you on a same equal level(education,Mentality, stability,employment ..not counting stripping..and  Morals) without a doubt you have to admit there are some Bad mothers out there , killing kids, custody disputes, MAURY PERTAINITY SHOWS etc. However there are GOOD black men that do get burnt by these types of women, Why is it more common that single black women-mothers get with goons that are drug dealers, hustlers, &#8217;cause they want to be taken care of. If she doesnt have her own she&#8217;s gonna use what she can to get what she wants. I pay child-support and yea it hurts but i look at it like this.. While im working, im getting far more employment experience surpassing any college applicant due to tenure,Knowledge, Credibility,AND Proving im a FIT parent than she. meanwhile she&#8217;s chasing her next catch to have another kid. who loses out in the end children do. but again these women DO NOT think of the children 1st. if so they would not have BORN them INTO poverty in the 1st place. With this experience each time i look at black women here in dallas, i say to myself&#8221; what was the real reason she has 2,3,4 kids?&#8221; its all about knowing .. are you willing to work for what you want in life? OR are you willing to fuck who u can to get what you want in life? I will never be a man taking care of some kids that are not mine WHY ITS MY CHOICE, I SHOULD NOT BE HELD ACCOUNTABLE FOR THE YOUNG HOODRATS HAVING THESE KIDS WHEN I DONT KNOW THEM AT ALL (but hey my taxes does anyway). I WILL NEVER DATE A BLACK/WHITE woman with kids where the bio-logical father is not present in the kids life in the 1st place you&#8217;re just asking for becoming a step father EASY SIGNAL although they&#8217;ll deny they trying to find a father figure some will give plenty of &#8220;FEEL SORRY FOR ME STORIES&#8221;. If we black men stopped dating/fucking women who already has a young babies eventually it could get in their heads to stop abusing us and the system. never trust a big bootie and a smile. but Paybacks are a Bitch and in Dallas recently about 82% on new HIV/AIDS cases are coming from these same types of BLACK WOMEN which are heterosexual. perfect ammo to use in a custody case. no matter what WE are stuck with our fuckups and i only have 6 more years of support to give so all that she did it for was a $200/month check. THINK my brotha&#8217;s our sista&#8217;s are the ones that have made hip-hop into what it is today, if not their sales on the charts wouldnt be an indicator and no matter who wants to deny it. Rap is VERY INFLUENTIAL to the NEW YOUNGSTERS THAT GREW UP WATCHING BET AKA&#8221;BET BABIES&#8221; if they changed their messages maybe inturn it can change our minds..<br />
peace<br />
-&#8221;A raven that whispers in your ear&#8221;</p>
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		<title>By: Kim</title>
		<link>http://www.xxlmag.com/news/bloggers/2006/05/mothers-day-reality-check/#comment-89734</link>
		<dc:creator>Kim</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 21 Aug 2006 15:48:44 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[Your definition of a &quot;true&quot; single mom seems somewhat distorted!! Making a bad choice doesn&#039;t make her a whore-lol. Any man who plants his seeds as if he&#039;s planting a garden throughout the city of the universe (boychild) deserves partial blame, as well.

Because it looks good doesn&#039;t mean its good for you. A real man protects himself and the woman he&#039;s with even if its for a short time...both parties are to blame.]]></description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Your definition of a &#8220;true&#8221; single mom seems somewhat distorted!! Making a bad choice doesn&#8217;t make her a whore-lol. Any man who plants his seeds as if he&#8217;s planting a garden throughout the city of the universe (boychild) deserves partial blame, as well.</p>
<p>Because it looks good doesn&#8217;t mean its good for you. A real man protects himself and the woman he&#8217;s with even if its for a short time&#8230;both parties are to blame.</p>
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		<title>By: DEDICATION</title>
		<link>http://www.xxlmag.com/news/bloggers/2006/05/mothers-day-reality-check/#comment-82917</link>
		<dc:creator>DEDICATION</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 14 Aug 2006 16:29:19 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[OH MY FUCKING GOD ARE U GUY&#039;S FUCKING SERIOU I NEVER HEARD SO MUCH BULLSHIT IN MY LIFE I NO I&#039;M KINDA LATE BUT I JUST HAD TO COMMITTE BECAUSE I NO ALOT OF BLACK WOMEN THAT HAD A CHILD FOR A MAN AND THEY DON&#039;T DO SHIT FOR THEM. I HAVE A COUPLE OF COUSIN THAT HAD BABIES OUT OF WEDLOCK THAT DOESN,T MEAN THAT THEIR WHORES THAT MEAN&#039;S THAT THEY JUST GOT CAUGHT UP IN THE LOVE GAME AND ONCE THEY RELATIONSHIP WENT SOUR THE NIGGA HAS DONE SHIT FOR THEIR CHILD. MY COUSIN WORKS TWO FUCKING JOB SHE DOESN,T GET ANY ASSISTANCE AND HIS STUPID ASS IS NOT ON CHILD SUPPORT SHE ASK HIM TO HELP WITH SOME SCHOOL CLOTHES FOR HIS CHILD HE COULDN&#039;T EVEN DO THAT. MY OTHER COUSIN HAS TWO CHILDREN BY THE SAME BABY DADDY SO U NO THAT SHE IS NO WHORE HE DOES NOT DO SHIT FOR HIS TWO KID&#039;S EITHER SHE WAS UNEMPLOYED AROUND CHRISTMAS EASON THAT MOTHERFUCKER DIDN&#039;T BY THE CHILDREN SHIT DON&#039;T CALL DON&#039;T DO SHIT IF IT WASN&#039;T FOR THE FAMILY THEY WON&#039;T HAD SHIT BUT IF THAT WAS ME I WOULD HAVE BUST THAT MOTHERFUCKER HEAD NIGGA&#039;S KILL ME IT&#039;S NOT ALL ABOUT YOUR LIL MONEY AND TRUST ME IT&#039;S LIL IT TAKES MORE THAN YOUR LIL $100 A MONTH TO RAISE A CHILD TRUST ME I WISH A MOTHERFUCKER WOULD TRY TO PLAY ME LIKE THAT AND THANK HIS ASS IS GOING RIDE AROUND ON RIMS AND SHIT THAT SHIT WILL BE ON FOUR FLATS EVERY MONTH YO ASS GONNA KICK IN SOME MONEY SOME WAY THEN YALL ASS WANT TO GET MAD WHEN THE CHILD GROWS UP AND DON&#039;T LIKE YO DUMB ASS DON&#039;T BLAME THE MOMMA THEN BECAUSE YOU CHOOSE TO NOT SPEND TIME WITH YOUR CHILD BECAUSE AT THE END OF THE DAY THAT&#039;S BETTER THAN MONEY TRUST ME STUPID BITCHES FUCK BLOG AND HIS MOMMA TO NASTY BITCH!!!!!!!!!!!SEL]]></description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>OH MY FUCKING GOD ARE U GUY&#8217;S FUCKING SERIOU I NEVER HEARD SO MUCH BULLSHIT IN MY LIFE I NO I&#8217;M KINDA LATE BUT I JUST HAD TO COMMITTE BECAUSE I NO ALOT OF BLACK WOMEN THAT HAD A CHILD FOR A MAN AND THEY DON&#8217;T DO SHIT FOR THEM. I HAVE A COUPLE OF COUSIN THAT HAD BABIES OUT OF WEDLOCK THAT DOESN,T MEAN THAT THEIR WHORES THAT MEAN&#8217;S THAT THEY JUST GOT CAUGHT UP IN THE LOVE GAME AND ONCE THEY RELATIONSHIP WENT SOUR THE NIGGA HAS DONE SHIT FOR THEIR CHILD. MY COUSIN WORKS TWO FUCKING JOB SHE DOESN,T GET ANY ASSISTANCE AND HIS STUPID ASS IS NOT ON CHILD SUPPORT SHE ASK HIM TO HELP WITH SOME SCHOOL CLOTHES FOR HIS CHILD HE COULDN&#8217;T EVEN DO THAT. MY OTHER COUSIN HAS TWO CHILDREN BY THE SAME BABY DADDY SO U NO THAT SHE IS NO WHORE HE DOES NOT DO SHIT FOR HIS TWO KID&#8217;S EITHER SHE WAS UNEMPLOYED AROUND CHRISTMAS EASON THAT MOTHERFUCKER DIDN&#8217;T BY THE CHILDREN SHIT DON&#8217;T CALL DON&#8217;T DO SHIT IF IT WASN&#8217;T FOR THE FAMILY THEY WON&#8217;T HAD SHIT BUT IF THAT WAS ME I WOULD HAVE BUST THAT MOTHERFUCKER HEAD NIGGA&#8217;S KILL ME IT&#8217;S NOT ALL ABOUT YOUR LIL MONEY AND TRUST ME IT&#8217;S LIL IT TAKES MORE THAN YOUR LIL $100 A MONTH TO RAISE A CHILD TRUST ME I WISH A MOTHERFUCKER WOULD TRY TO PLAY ME LIKE THAT AND THANK HIS ASS IS GOING RIDE AROUND ON RIMS AND SHIT THAT SHIT WILL BE ON FOUR FLATS EVERY MONTH YO ASS GONNA KICK IN SOME MONEY SOME WAY THEN YALL ASS WANT TO GET MAD WHEN THE CHILD GROWS UP AND DON&#8217;T LIKE YO DUMB ASS DON&#8217;T BLAME THE MOMMA THEN BECAUSE YOU CHOOSE TO NOT SPEND TIME WITH YOUR CHILD BECAUSE AT THE END OF THE DAY THAT&#8217;S BETTER THAN MONEY TRUST ME STUPID BITCHES FUCK BLOG AND HIS MOMMA TO NASTY BITCH!!!!!!!!!!!SEL</p>
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		<title>By: Beantown</title>
		<link>http://www.xxlmag.com/news/bloggers/2006/05/mothers-day-reality-check/#comment-42506</link>
		<dc:creator>Beantown</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 23 Jun 2006 21:11:05 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[Amen to that whatever, amen, Stupid ass niggers aint smart enough to realize their the fucking responsible ones for their fucking actions, you get a fucking bitch pregnant, bravo, and dont complain about having to pay child support, it was your dick in her pussy and your sperm that made the baby so fuck up and pay you fucking morons.  

And for the fucking black bitches who have the nerve to complain, i should slap the shit out of you. How dare you, how fucking dare you complain. Science has made new useful inventions. Inventions such as a pill, that they call birth control if you fucktards didnt know. If that faggot wont pay child support, then its your fault you made a bad investment in a degenerated nigger and you opened your god damned legs. Aint no one to blame except all those moronic fucktard black men i mean niggers and black women, my mistake i mean bitchass fucking whores]]></description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Amen to that whatever, amen, Stupid ass niggers aint smart enough to realize their the fucking responsible ones for their fucking actions, you get a fucking bitch pregnant, bravo, and dont complain about having to pay child support, it was your dick in her pussy and your sperm that made the baby so fuck up and pay you fucking morons.  </p>
<p>And for the fucking black bitches who have the nerve to complain, i should slap the shit out of you. How dare you, how fucking dare you complain. Science has made new useful inventions. Inventions such as a pill, that they call birth control if you fucktards didnt know. If that faggot wont pay child support, then its your fault you made a bad investment in a degenerated nigger and you opened your god damned legs. Aint no one to blame except all those moronic fucktard black men i mean niggers and black women, my mistake i mean bitchass fucking whores</p>
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		<title>By: whatever</title>
		<link>http://www.xxlmag.com/news/bloggers/2006/05/mothers-day-reality-check/#comment-28697</link>
		<dc:creator>whatever</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 29 May 2006 06:19:31 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[i&#039;d just like to point out that child support is 100% about the child, and not about the custodial parent, so &quot;she&quot; is not taking your money, bro, your child is taking your money.  if you don&#039;t want to pay support, fight for custody.  if you don&#039;t want to be a father, WEAR A CONDOM, you dumb fucking irresponsible NIGGER!

that said, it&#039;s called an ABORTION, you dumb black cunts!  you obviously can&#039;t get enough of fucking greasy black buck dick, and yet you&#039;re too &quot;christian&quot; to have an abortion.  well, guess what?  christians don&#039;t have sex out of wedlock, bitches, so can the hyposcisy and start preventing poverty/crime/despair, etc., etc., etc. 

the first step in being a good mother is choosing a good father.  it&#039;s that simple, whore.  those lazy, worthless men you fuck who don&#039;t take responsibility for their children are the men you CHOSE to fuck and breed with.  you are NO better than they are.  

i swear the only thing i hate more than men are the women that keep giving birth to them.]]></description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>i&#8217;d just like to point out that child support is 100% about the child, and not about the custodial parent, so &#8220;she&#8221; is not taking your money, bro, your child is taking your money.  if you don&#8217;t want to pay support, fight for custody.  if you don&#8217;t want to be a father, WEAR A CONDOM, you dumb fucking irresponsible NIGGER!</p>
<p>that said, it&#8217;s called an ABORTION, you dumb black cunts!  you obviously can&#8217;t get enough of fucking greasy black buck dick, and yet you&#8217;re too &#8220;christian&#8221; to have an abortion.  well, guess what?  christians don&#8217;t have sex out of wedlock, bitches, so can the hyposcisy and start preventing poverty/crime/despair, etc., etc., etc. </p>
<p>the first step in being a good mother is choosing a good father.  it&#8217;s that simple, whore.  those lazy, worthless men you fuck who don&#8217;t take responsibility for their children are the men you CHOSE to fuck and breed with.  you are NO better than they are.  </p>
<p>i swear the only thing i hate more than men are the women that keep giving birth to them.</p>
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		<title>By: melody</title>
		<link>http://www.xxlmag.com/news/bloggers/2006/05/mothers-day-reality-check/#comment-24436</link>
		<dc:creator>melody</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sun, 21 May 2006 03:06:50 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[I think Lone Nigerian makes the best 
sense. The best way to avoid all of 
this mess is the wait until marriage 
before having sex. I find it interesting that no one else has agreed or even responded to that basic
fact. I have the same belief. That would eliminate so much of the dysfunction that goes on. I am one of those Black women who belives in no sex before marriage, no children before marriage, both parents raising their child, and for people to be financially secure before bringing children into the world.]]></description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I think Lone Nigerian makes the best<br />
sense. The best way to avoid all of<br />
this mess is the wait until marriage<br />
before having sex. I find it interesting that no one else has agreed or even responded to that basic<br />
fact. I have the same belief. That would eliminate so much of the dysfunction that goes on. I am one of those Black women who belives in no sex before marriage, no children before marriage, both parents raising their child, and for people to be financially secure before bringing children into the world.</p>
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		<title>By: you know who nigga</title>
		<link>http://www.xxlmag.com/news/bloggers/2006/05/mothers-day-reality-check/#comment-23575</link>
		<dc:creator>you know who nigga</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 19 May 2006 16:09:00 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[Like ole boy said, if you abort all of the black male babies you&#039;d see the crime rate decrease. True. Their would also be fewer prisons, smaller ghettos and an all around better country! I&#039;m all for free abortions for black women bearing male fetuses.]]></description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Like ole boy said, if you abort all of the black male babies you&#8217;d see the crime rate decrease. True. Their would also be fewer prisons, smaller ghettos and an all around better country! I&#8217;m all for free abortions for black women bearing male fetuses.</p>
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		<title>By: A Sista</title>
		<link>http://www.xxlmag.com/news/bloggers/2006/05/mothers-day-reality-check/#comment-23554</link>
		<dc:creator>A Sista</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 19 May 2006 15:47:02 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[But, if for the most part the black woman is doing better than the black man - if she&#039;s so screwed up, then what does that say for the black man.. Man up, stop your bitchin and take responsibility for the demise of the black man since the civil rights movement.. I don&#039;t care how many children a black woman has - she has the right to a reasonalbe expectation that the sorry ass coon who impregnated her will atleast be a father to his child even if they can&#039;t sork things out.. This is just another excuse to justify the black mans inability to take personal responsibility.. Over 65% of black men with children are not in their lives in some form, be it spiritually, financially or emotionally.. That number drops to 26% when you combine all other races of men in this country.. How does 8% of this country (the black male population) end up accounting for over 50% of its crime?? Why will 70% of college grads this year be black women?? Why are balck women more employable than black men?? Why will the white man welcome the black woman into his business but not the black man?? Could it be because he&#039;s tired of you coming into his business with one gaol: TO HAVE SEX WITH HIS WOMEN??? Instead of bitchin about the black woman, who is doing mountains better than you, get your head out of the white womans ass and make something of your lives...]]></description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>But, if for the most part the black woman is doing better than the black man &#8211; if she&#8217;s so screwed up, then what does that say for the black man.. Man up, stop your bitchin and take responsibility for the demise of the black man since the civil rights movement.. I don&#8217;t care how many children a black woman has &#8211; she has the right to a reasonalbe expectation that the sorry ass coon who impregnated her will atleast be a father to his child even if they can&#8217;t sork things out.. This is just another excuse to justify the black mans inability to take personal responsibility.. Over 65% of black men with children are not in their lives in some form, be it spiritually, financially or emotionally.. That number drops to 26% when you combine all other races of men in this country.. How does 8% of this country (the black male population) end up accounting for over 50% of its crime?? Why will 70% of college grads this year be black women?? Why are balck women more employable than black men?? Why will the white man welcome the black woman into his business but not the black man?? Could it be because he&#8217;s tired of you coming into his business with one gaol: TO HAVE SEX WITH HIS WOMEN??? Instead of bitchin about the black woman, who is doing mountains better than you, get your head out of the white womans ass and make something of your lives&#8230;</p>
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		<title>By: emm</title>
		<link>http://www.xxlmag.com/news/bloggers/2006/05/mothers-day-reality-check/#comment-22584</link>
		<dc:creator>emm</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 18 May 2006 09:06:44 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[I have to agree with what u are writin, with one exeption: 
&quot;In an age of relatively easy and inexpensive access to family planning services, I don’t know that a man has any real moral obligation to take care of a child he didn’t want in the first place.&quot;
Tell me u wrote that just to stir up the debate in here, cause you cant possibly mean that protecting yourself from an unwanted pregnancy is only the womans responisibility? If a man dont want a child, there are condoms in every corner store...]]></description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I have to agree with what u are writin, with one exeption:<br />
&#8220;In an age of relatively easy and inexpensive access to family planning services, I don’t know that a man has any real moral obligation to take care of a child he didn’t want in the first place.&#8221;<br />
Tell me u wrote that just to stir up the debate in here, cause you cant possibly mean that protecting yourself from an unwanted pregnancy is only the womans responisibility? If a man dont want a child, there are condoms in every corner store&#8230;</p>
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		<title>By: john cochran</title>
		<link>http://www.xxlmag.com/news/bloggers/2006/05/mothers-day-reality-check/#comment-21666</link>
		<dc:creator>john cochran</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 16 May 2006 21:46:30 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[I&#039;m gald u actually had the balls to write about something like that. I agree with that shit. People always praise these mothers out here but they part of the problem too.]]></description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I&#8217;m gald u actually had the balls to write about something like that. I agree with that shit. People always praise these mothers out here but they part of the problem too.</p>
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		<title>By: Nay Nimley</title>
		<link>http://www.xxlmag.com/news/bloggers/2006/05/mothers-day-reality-check/#comment-21606</link>
		<dc:creator>Nay Nimley</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 16 May 2006 20:56:04 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[I&#039;d like to thank you for getting me through my 8 hour workdays. Can you host my mixtape?? Holla back]]></description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I&#8217;d like to thank you for getting me through my 8 hour workdays. Can you host my mixtape?? Holla back</p>
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		<title>By: rec</title>
		<link>http://www.xxlmag.com/news/bloggers/2006/05/mothers-day-reality-check/#comment-21406</link>
		<dc:creator>rec</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 16 May 2006 16:18:24 +0000</pubDate>
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		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>^cosign</p>
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		<title>By: YuNg World</title>
		<link>http://www.xxlmag.com/news/bloggers/2006/05/mothers-day-reality-check/#comment-21386</link>
		<dc:creator>YuNg World</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 16 May 2006 15:54:55 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[If yur gonna highlight the bad also bring the good to light



Killer Mike reiterates the sentiment spoken by Proof and those who defend hip-hop as the scapegoat to the violence, citing poverty and oppression as the root cause. 

&quot;I think the biggest insult since Philant has been killed is the [suggestion that] this is somehow rap-related because that doesn&#039;t get to the real problem,&quot; he says. &quot;The real problem is that you have millions of young, angry, disenfranchised Latino, Black and poor white men who don&#039;t have any real hope or outlet for hope.&quot; All they have is envy and hate that they pour into one another. They&#039;re made to feel as if they&#039;re not good enough and that if they buy some shit and put it on, people won&#039;t treat them like they&#039;re poor. And when that doesn&#039;t happen to a disenfranchised Black male, the only thing he&#039;s left with besides all [of the material things] is a lot of pain and anger because the hole that&#039;s in him is not filled up yet. And I believe that that&#039;s the spirit that killed Philant.&quot;]]></description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>If yur gonna highlight the bad also bring the good to light</p>
<p>Killer Mike reiterates the sentiment spoken by Proof and those who defend hip-hop as the scapegoat to the violence, citing poverty and oppression as the root cause. </p>
<p>&#8220;I think the biggest insult since Philant has been killed is the [suggestion that] this is somehow rap-related because that doesn&#8217;t get to the real problem,&#8221; he says. &#8220;The real problem is that you have millions of young, angry, disenfranchised Latino, Black and poor white men who don&#8217;t have any real hope or outlet for hope.&#8221; All they have is envy and hate that they pour into one another. They&#8217;re made to feel as if they&#8217;re not good enough and that if they buy some shit and put it on, people won&#8217;t treat them like they&#8217;re poor. And when that doesn&#8217;t happen to a disenfranchised Black male, the only thing he&#8217;s left with besides all [of the material things] is a lot of pain and anger because the hole that&#8217;s in him is not filled up yet. And I believe that that&#8217;s the spirit that killed Philant.&#8221;</p>
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